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Greetings, Owl. I was too long. I started over, this time with your question. Do I think you’re too far be gone to stop him from using her and maybe myself. Your next decision or so decide if it’s ‘yes’ or ‘no.’ So you [AND Mrs. Owl] are right on that very edge. How can he steer her his way...

Do I think he will penetrate her soon? Owl, only your wife can answer that question. Beyond that, this is what I CAN say. First, given your wife’s age [I’m thinking you’re nearing senior years?] and the other photo you’ve posted, I’m genuinely taken back. Why is that? There are many a...

I just sent a dm thanking you for the follow and more. I asked for feedback again, and discovered you gave it at the same time I posted! This is actually further along than I guessed. Owl, this was a TEST. It tested you. But the results were for HER. He and your wife have an ‘understanding.’...

I see a number of things happening here. First, your buddy is skilled and smooth. He means to see this through. He is working both of you, preparing you, training and habituating you. He already has you participating in your own cuckolding. There is purpose and intent in everything you report...

I suggest that is for you to decide. But do be sure before acting. So far as logistics go, that shouldn’t be much of a problem. You can explain the situation to the guy on the side. He will take care of the rest.

How do you feel about this? And how is your wife with it? Does she draw back, seem engaged, or does she appear indifferent? Has she mentioned anything about his behaviors.

Mister nobody: You take all the time you want and need. I took the time to prepare the reply I did with the hope that you would use it precisely as you are doing. I don’t spend a great amount of time posting, but I very much appreciate those who use the forum the way you describe using it...

MisterNobody: I’m replying to both posts [# 25 and # 26] in this one post. I see good things here. You approach this from a perspective of honesty, understanding and personal growth. This is hugely important. More on this. But for now, continue on this path. Your metaphor, you ‘love the...

I’d shy away from porn, and from your ideal fantasy/fantasies. But catalogue in your mind — and record any relevant information or developments here for further consideration. Also, try to figure out Anna’s ideal fantasy evening or date. Practice passive listening. If a mentioned theme comes up...

It’s one thing if your husband doesn’t have a good feeling about someone, a situation where you can ask ‘what do you need from me in this situation [safety for you, assurance for hubby, etc.]. But with bad blood between them, that is another matter. Why does your husband say ‘yes?’ Is it...

So Snoopissy: I’m guessing the work must be about finished. Have you made any progress on finding that GPS Tracker? Also, there is the possibility of putting your phone on ‘silent’ mode, stashing it in your vehicle, and tracking it on your ‘puter at home? It’s still possible that she’s...

This is interesting. Very conservative in my youth, I later took a very eclectic path. I’m intrigued that you’re grappling with her taking the opposite direction, her ‘rediscovery of faith’ included. I wonder what her affair might have contributed to this… I’d stay away from the ‘porn’ theme...

Someone wrote that cuckoldry creates a new, erotic order where the wife makes the decisions, holds the power. defines when, how and by whom her body will be honoured. She neither seeks nor needs permission. The freedom is hers. People speak about cuckold angst, the emotional upheaval, the...

After months of nothing, and in your place, I’d respect her as a woman more if she did. Suggest supporting and facilitating her in whatever she decides.

For starters, don’t ask. Use passive listening over time to figure out her favourite fantasy. Then you’ve got something with which to work.

She responds as she does with him because that’s what sex is supposed to be. His being really good at sex doesn’t make this in any sense ‘bad.’ Is any of this shame based on religious belief?

Snoopster: I hope this doesn’t come off poorly; but my sense is that to the degree that you are reading this situation correctly, your wife doesn’t need to be porked by another man, however much you may want that to be, or think it would help her. What I’m getting from your post is that she...

I don’t see that you have the relationship to make this work.

That’s the thing … whatever else is said/done, it must be 100% clear to all that ‘everyone is on the same page.’

Got that! 😜