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The whole "I had a dream" scenario does seem like a way to approach a discussion/declaration of some kind. It seems like a way to "blame" the thoughts as being involuntary and avoid the perception that her daytime thoughts aren't the issue. If it were me, I'd tell her that you really enjoyed...

I suppose the finding of the porn could mean a lot of different things. I would also suggest that it doesn't necessarily mean that she's unsatisfied. I wouldn't assume anything until you get a chance to ask her about it. What is more concerning to me is that she was "hyper sexual" before being...

I can personally attest to the great difficulty in being married to a wife raised in an ultra conservative Christian household. It has taken decades to put a small dent in that wall. My wife knows I crave sex but after years of her being ambivalent towards sex caused me to shut down. She's...

Thanks for the update. I have a better understanding of what "unfinished business" meant now. Your question regarding about the ongoing nature of this new development is telling. Since she's taking the initiative and "ownership" does it feel like there is little less communication that leaves...

It's good to hear that you feel closer relationship wise. That's important! It is also important that your communication is not inhibited by any type of fear or worry. I get that this step of her taking the initiative is a desired thing. It shows that it's not just you wanting this. I proves a...

I'll have to say that the tone of your post is pretty blurry. Even with you checking in with "him" it doesn't sound like he's in the loop either. I think you've been wise to "let her process things" on her own but it leaves you in an very unaware position. The fact that you had assumed something...

Any updates?

Wow!

Do you have any plans for your trip to Tampa? Have you done any research on places to take her where there might be a "target rich environment"?

I can hear it now. This where all the "cheerleaders" will jump on board. There's going to be cacophony of statements like, "You have to let her have her freedom!", or "You just need to let her take the lead!", or "It's not her fault that she didn't tell you everything!". Who knows maybe she was...

Sounds like your out of the loop a little.

This has to be an exciting stage. I honestly hope you talk with her more about the jealousy. So many people post here about how important a hot wife's first experience is. The other side of this is that not many post about how important a husband's first experience is. This will be as new to you...

From your update it seems they had/have every intention of playing "with" you and not "playing you" as I earlier asserted. I'm interested to find out how the dice game went and how things ended up.

Any updates? I especially want to know if you figured out her PIN on her phone? Does she guard her phone, as in not leaving it where you can see it? Do you suspect that the pregnancy test was only about the sex that JUST you two have had?

I can only offer you my reactions to your post. My very first reaction was to the "emasculating" talk. How far you go with your kink will depend so much on how committed you are to each other. You may desire the emasculation, you may even get a thrill from it. Over time you won't need any verbal...

Well, it's a work in progress and you have a good foundation of being able to discuss things. I have faith that you'll come out happy in the long run.

#6 seems like it could be difficult especially when added to the vagueness of #7. Overall, it has to feel good to have a greater understanding of where you both find yourself on your journey.

Is there anything that stands out that you didn't know before that has come from your discussions?

Any updates?