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Well I held it in for years, I mean like a decade before talking to her about it and at that point I was just not able to keep it in. My fantasy was to watch her have a threesome with 2 other men with me watching. That still has not happened but as far as time frame from talk to action was much...

We had a year of MFM which I truly enjoyed but my fantasy is to see her in a MFM where I am watching her with 2 other guys, it hasn't happened yet but I am hoping. She has a similar goal where she gets comfortable enough to have several guys go at it with her, she isn't there yet but with time...

For the first year she had a regular boyfriend type and we would meet at our place, his place and many other spots including hotels and we have a friend with several AirBnBs we can borrow. She would also go meet with him solo quite a bit, several times a week at the height of it. That...

Our experiences have all been "full" experiences, no condom but we screen ahead of time. It makes it difficult to have an unplanned encounter though. So far we have not had a problem with pre-screening, its cheap and only takes a few days. If we were to have something unplanned we would use...

We kind of fell into a situation where my wife was seeing a guy regularly and found out one of her friends was a long term hotwife, which at the time I wouldn't classify my wife as despite what was happening. She has since moved into more of what I would consider a hotwife more or less through...

Back in the days of monogamy, actually pre-marriage

This is an oldie from when we were still dating

Wife used to be shared, now she is only having sex with bulls and so shared isn't really accurate as she is not sharing herself with me currently.

Not really and maybe. The current bull is set in his ways, he has been doing this a long time and he is available on his terms. He actually checks many boxes as far as the women are concerned. That is actually a very good idea regarding setting up a different bull that fits what I am looking...

Its not a "won't" as much as he is there for our purposes but also his. He plays outside of his marriage with the blessing of his wife as they are no longer on the same wavelength sexually. He has a very high libido and this allows them to cope better and g=for the women he meets with they have...

In a nutshell I wanted to watch her in a threesome with 2 other men and revealed that to her. After some fuss we started moving in that direction and kind of detoured into her having a year long boyfriend with whom we had many threesomes on top of her having endless solo encounters. It was great...

Good to hear from you. I haven't been posting much as I really haven't known what to say. My current situation is just that, current, but likely to change as it always does. We are not so much in a denial phase. My wife and I back when things fizzled with the boyfriend, talked about her hotwife...

I must admit that our current phase has been the most challenging for me as a husband. I knew moving forward was going to be tough at times and it has been. My wife has been seeing a bull referred to us by her hotwife friend and I understand why he was chosen. He is an older married man with a...

As someone experiencing a similar situation but a year and a half into it I can tell you rules are good but you will adjust them over time. We started slow with her having a regular boyfriend and we were getting together with him for 3somes and she was seeing him solo. Eventually it tan it’s...

My fantasy has always been to watch her in a 3some with 2other men. This fantasy took over my brain and eventually is what caused me to drink it to her attention which is what brought us into this lifestyle. I am going to point out she has done nearly everything since but this.

We have some different rules I suppose being that pregnancy isn't a concern as she had a hysterectomy over a decade ago. Our focus is strictly on STDs. She doesn't play with randos so we only play after testing. It can be done fast and is inexpensive, it also beats the hell out of condoms.

Many strip clubs have an amateur night where she could get up on stage and it be legit.

As far as how easy things are or not. This "phase" has been one of the more challenging. It was far easier to have a regular and know what was happening/when it was happening etc. The autonomy comes with a price. First of all, things don't always work out, people can be flaky or personalities...

Well, the reality is we are learning as we go. As far as the bull goes he is somewhat of a transition and based on our talks and comfort level our friend thought he would be a good choice. She started to meet with him years ago and has continued to meet with him at times although she has an...

It has been a time of adjustment for us as we have moved into this new arrangement and kind of hard to describe so I have waited a bit for us to get more settled. We decided that since we were going down the hotwife path we would lean a bit on her hotwife friend for not only guidance but help in...