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Has always been to watch her as part of a MFM, we have done MFM but never where I am watching her with 2 other men. Still on the to do list.

New Years Eve, things got a little bit messy, physically and literally.

Some interesting insight in the husband and wife roles here. Oddly I think our dynamic started opposite yours, with more adventurous husband and more reserved wife. As things have progressed my wife is moving more towards the center with a bit more adventure. I feel like she has become more...

Yes but its been way too cold here in FL to be undressed so this is as good as it gets

Thankfully our code words have been needed very little but it goes both ways. It isn't just a throttle for me to slow down what she does, in fact it hasn't been needed for that at all. This is not so much a safe word during sex as there really hasn't been anything off limits with what we have...

Cold weather sucks

Be careful, I know of someone who goes through something similar but not tied to a chair, he willfully gets into a gallows type thing when his wife "entertains".

Indeed

Yeah, was about half hour if I recall

We started with just a loose agreement and it sort of worked as we know each other well enough not to push too far. But, how far is far enough and how far is too far? We decided we needed guidelines after our therapist asked what our rules are and we couldn't really define it. We felt like...

Do you ever use toys in the bedroom? Start with toys you both use and move to ones she uses. Maybe start there and let her spend ample time pleasuring herself with toys while you watch.

I couldn't do this without the eye contact. It really is what makes me a part of it sometimes. The fact that my wife knows that and makes sure to provide me that, is a key part of this working for the both of us in the times I am not directly involved.

What are your thoughts on it? A lot of people have suggested we do one. Not convinced yet.

Its a tough spot when emotions/feelings are involved. I say that but I have allowed my wife to be in a relationship with a man for nearly a year. Its more than sex. It wasn't meant to be but it is. and I am partially if not solely to blame for that. I acted on a fantasy and revealed to my wife...

Thanks for that, follow me at your own discretion , I have no idea what I am doing lol

You are on the right track in that she gets that I am good (sometimes) as a spectator but it doesn't truly make sense to her, and that might be that she is a woman and I am a man and as men we are more visual. I do try to maintain open communication so she knows how I feel about things and part...

You are on to something. For instance if we play around with toys and are done is when she asks if I am OK with it just being done even though I didn't do anything and the answer is yes, most of the time. She doesn't realize it but she does do the same occasionally. If I wake up in a shitty mood...

I find this thread interesting and I do enjoy that I am not alone in my situation. My fetish of watching my wife, not just with other men but video of us or playing with sex toys really is the underlying forse that brought us to where we are. My wife has asked me many times, but what about you...