I have been the first to have the bride after the ceremony. Morning of as well so she had MY sperm planted deep during the ceremony. Was HER choice to before and after the ceremony. He just bowed out and accepted it was going to happen. In fact, he didn’t get to touch her until after the honeymoon.
I would want both of you wanting me to get her pregnant. I won’t hesitate to step into your marriage as head of household the moment she conceives. I will also want a paternity test to prove you are not the father.
Your wife but my girlfriend/lover.