That is the most important part, 100% yes! Then tell her you desire her and you want her to play with others, as that would satisfy your fantasy. Explain to her that it would be a huge turn on for you.
Frequently, yes. She loves it, so I do,too. Better when it's from another. Anything I can do to increase her orgasm intensity and frequency is welcome!
First off, don't let porn educate you on the lifestyle. Communicate. Share your desires with her... not just when you're aroused.
Talk to her about how you value your marriage and never want to break that up. But explain you want her to explore other guys in a flirty and sexual way. In our...