The anxiety will ...... me if i'm not there. I'm always in the room. Make sure things don't go out of hand. The downside is that i'm almost always locked and have to endure straining in the cage
The first time i wore a cage (other than just trying it on, figuring how it works) is when watching wife and the other guy fuck. Its absolute frustrating. But the cage was given to me because i came early during previous sessions and ruined it.