New to LS but ler he lead is the best Ive heard. Especially if you want sumn long term. If she wants to take is slow and set the pace; let her. Not sure how involved you want him so discuss it beforehand. I say it over and over but read The Ethical Slut as a primer for communication and...
New to the LS but read The Ethical Slut over a decade ago. Good idea to crack it open with the Mrs even if your relationship stayed closed - the entire book is about boundaries and communication to establish between you two to stay on the same page.