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It could be the particular dildo. Women have different sensitivities to firmness, straightness, etc. It could be that it just doesn’t feel right to her, but a different one would. The difficulty is trying to get her to try a different type once she has decided she doesn’t like the feeling.

I can think of two reasons. 1) When you two are together swapping with other couples, there are natural boundaries and ground rules. It is play. Emotion can be left out of it. There are other people around to keep things from getting violent or coercive. If she is alone with another man those...

More sexual is a start. It is a marathon, not a sprint.

She is telling that she is willing, but it will come with consequences. There won’t just be additional sex partners. You will have multiple people in your relationship. She is warning you that for her sex isn’t just sex. It is also romance and love. Your relationship won’t be merely...

Try starting with some humor to break the ice for a real conversation. When you are talking about the logistics of your trip, at an appropriate moment in the conversation throw in a comment like “When I get back, I’ll tell you all about what happened during the week. But I’m sure the stories...

Yeah, it was quite a surprise to me when my wife had massive orgasms from anal. There are times I think she prefers it. DP has become her jam.

I totally get how hard it can be to tell your wife about this fantasy, especially if you’re worried she might react badly. But hey, at least you’re taking the first step by sharing videos and letting her know you enjoy those scenarios. She probably already knows or is curious, right? Since...

Have you confessed to her your desire for her to have sex with other men? There’s a big difference between exciting talk about big cocks during sex play and really contemplating that big cock hanging off another man who is in bed with you two. You have to transition from one to the other if you...

It helps if you’ve already established a pattern of teasing each other with provocative talk outside the bedroom. You can get away with saying some outrageous things to gauge-reactions that way. Tell her a scenario of tying her up and doing all sorts of foreplay she enjoys while she just...

My wife had the same strong reaction when I first talked to her about cuckolding and mmf threesomes. Take it slow. Let her know that it’s okay that the toys are just objects to her. You’ll just have your own fantasies about them being other men. When you want to introduce her to something new...

Post her picture here and show her the responses.

Let’s break this down. She says she is kinky only because it turns you on when she gets turned on. So, the kinky stuff does arouse her. And then it turns her on more because you become aroused. You have a virtuous cycle of arousal. It sounds like she is working through things in her mind and...

Toys are one thing. Have you shared your desires with her? Do you two role play that the 9” is another man or just a toy?