I'm 42 lol, older women, I enjoy sex like anybody, bigger might be better YES, but you do need to realise that we've had children & sometimes that is what makes us orgasm.
Not that anybody would know other than your partner but when wearing a summer dress I never wear panties. I enjoy the feeling of breeze here and there and of course feeling slightly naughty lol
Will fuck my husband once a week but he needs to masturbate for me, I enjoy watching him jerk off, maybe somewhere outside home or spare of the moment lol