This is a great list, especially #6. So many couples finally work up the nerve to meet in person, but want to go straight from fantasy to the bedroom. I've had plenty of couples reach out to me, meet and then one spouse realizes that reality of it is too much.
Plenty of bulls in the UK, next time you are roleplaying with her, ask her what kind of guys turn her on. Then you'll have the information you need to find the right bull for her.
The best sites for actual hookups for couples in the lifestyle are the following:
- Doublelist
- Fetlife
- Kasidie
- A local reddit page www.reddit.c_m/r/CarolinaHotWives/