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  1. Lapster

    How to convice a loyal indian wife??

    Well first thing to know before anyone can give you advice is what is her reasoning for not wanting to fuck another guy for you?
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    I love showing off my hotwife for guys to jerk

    Holy s%$t I love her hips, breasts, thighs, et al BTW I live in Alabama. I would love to chat if you are interested.
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    A sexy surprise and incitation… from wife to hot wife.

    Well her comment when blindfolded gives you the go ahead to bring a dancer for her on another "surprise occasion". My absolute, first and foremost, key message to you is that you want to avoid a "bad encounter", because the "uncomfortable emotions" of a sexual situation gone wrong will...
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    Comment by 'Lapster' in media 'BlackRhino#25.jpg'

    I hate fakes. This is a picture of Elaine who is the well known female half of a stag/vixen couple. Their username is Elaine4Blk on several sharing sites.
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    Comment by 'Lapster' in media 'BlackRhino#8.jpg'

    I wish all these fakes would go away. The woman's name is Elaine. You also have pictures of other known couples.
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    Beautiful Alabama Southern Belle.

    Beautiful Alabama Southern Belle.
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    Do you think my gf would fuck a friend?

    I wanted to give you a quick list of some of the issues you have to address typically with your wife/girlfriend for all encounters. This list isn't comprehensive and it isn't all fun and games, In fact most of these are risks which you need to mitigate down to a level of acceptable risk for the...
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    Trying to convince wife to be a vixen

    I have been involved in the Lifestyle for over 30 years as the male half of couple and also as a solo male. I also have a lot of knowledge about psychology. Private message me, if you are interested in my analysis of your situation.
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    Stigma against sharing your wife/gf

    I posted this on another thread on a similar topic. My wife and I didn't want to come out because there can be consequences of someone outing lifestyle couples viciously. Unfortunate that there are those type of people in the world, but they exist. I have seen it happen to others personally. It...
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    Do you think my gf would fuck a friend?

    Great. I would love to hear how things go. That is the fun part for me and why I spend the time offering advice. I always like to remind guys making the introduction to their wife and approaching a guy to join you and your wife that what I propose is a "framework" with ideas, but it can't cover...
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    Do you think my gf would fuck a friend?

    Yeah I would always go, if you like to watch. My partners never went solo. Some guys are into that scene the woman dating. I am not one of those guys; I am a voyeur who wants to watch her have sex. Don't let her go anymore without you, because you're hoping by letting her go solo once or twice...
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    Do you think my gf would fuck a friend?

    I warn against" telling" when initiating the discussion with your woman but prefer "asking". An approach I might try if I was you is to frame a first question "I really enjoyed the positive, excited feelings I noticed in you from having your nude photos taken. I loved that change in you. What...
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    Stigma against sharing your wife/gf

    Well from my studies on the subject of negative perceptions and derogatory connotations by the general public surrounding "Cuckolding" is a combination of human nature and limiting vocabulary. As behavioral scientists have continued research into what is inbred nature versus acquired nuture...
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    Road to Cuckold

    Covert Narcissists don't do that behavior of lying to inflate their ego. They lie to manipulate and cheat. Other Narcissist types do lie to inflate.
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    Wife scared to play for real

    All the issues that I have heard above from the females perspective, fear of attachment, negative body perceptions, performance anxiety and concerns about husband becoming jealous can all be addressed from my past experience by being patient and using that time to develop a relationship with the...
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    Wife scared to play for real

    I agree making decisions based on morality is good reasoning to do or not do anything. My ex wife and a couple of other partners I have shared since then have all come to different conclusions on the morality of sharing relationships. We came to the conclusion that if what we were doing wasn't...
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    Road to Cuckold

    I don't have enough information to make an accurate assessment with any confidence level. I will say though your posts included paraphrased conversations that sounded very familiar to me and then the actions you mentioned as well. I just like to make people aware of their type because they are...
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    Road to Cuckold

    I did post 2 in a row, so I hope you will read the post right above your last post if you missed it.
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    Road to Cuckold

    Sounds just like the guy I was before I got involved with my Narcissist. I was very surprised when I turned up with this weird feeling which turned out to be a Trauma Bond. Fortunately have high self-esteem and somewhat lower empathy so I was about to bounce back. I am back to that guy I was...
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    Road to Cuckold

    I hope you will take this to heart, because I'm on your side even if I'm recommending breaking up with her, which is a place you haven't gotten to yet. Hence, why I wrote my first post, describing the condition and the destructive nature of these relationships. My next post summarized what has...