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Why do you not just tell the bull you want to be a part of it? Is it possible for you to simply arrange a meeting with a bull that is comfortable with what it is you are seeking?

I don't feel like this is ever going to happen for my wife. I was invited by a member here to attend a private party he and his wife were going to so I could get a feel for things and decide if I really want to do this. I do. Not in the way that they do but they were very nice, not sure if I...

This is your wife's lover?

Is it better to arrange a one time meeting with a man every six weeks or so and then only see them the one time or to establish someone who is a regular visitor?

So I am not really certain of the terminolgy but this above is not what I am trying to do, to each his own. I am straight and unable to perform sexually. My wife is also straight. I am trying to have another man step in to have sex with her without me being a part of that experience. I am...

I appreciate that and I agree it is a huge step. I feel I am at a place I am ready but it has not been discussed with my wife yet so we as a couple are not ready but how do you get there?

So what seems to be the best method to introduce this tender topic? In our case I am considering a surrogate for my wife since prostate cancer has left me unable to maintain an erection long enough to have sex. I really am at a loss for how to bring it up to my wife. If I do and she agrees how...

I did not mean to use a label, but I am curious if you also have sex with men? I see a lot of people refer to that here and it confuses me. I am straight and intend to stay that way. In a perfect world I would be the one providing sex to my wife but I am unable for now and likely that will not...

So you are bisexual? I suppose if you are not really interested in women or if your preference changed after marriage it is a way for both of you to get what you want.

No infidelity? I don't know if you noticed but the man behind your wife has his cock in her unless this is just some deep tissue massage where they are both naked. I would not say I am a "jealous type" but I think there is a fair amount of ground between being jealous and this. Your wife is...

How can you possibly sit there and just watch your wife having sex with another man? Do you not get jealous and want to stop them or do you not care?

Surgery and prescription medication has not worked so ginger sounds to be a long shot

While I am sure it is a pleasure for many men, I just do not feel it is something I would need to watch happen. Watching someone else's wife is fine but I don't need to see it happen to my wife. I think I will struggle with things enough without seeing it but I do believe I can withstand and my...

Yes, it has been discussed but I have one more surgery they would like to explore prior. It would be at least 18 months out at earliest following my next surgery which is set for May 25

I understand I need to be OK with allowing it to happen but I don't think I could watch it happen. How do you allow it and also watch it? It seems that would just be too much to process. I don't think I could remain calm and might do or say something.

I really had not considered having immediate or any penetration if going this route. That is interesting but I am not certain 3 or 4 thrusts is really going to satisfy either of us. I can do that now.

This is all new and nothing has happened yet, not even a discussion but there is no way I would want to see my wife having sex with another man. I do not need that image burned in my mind forever. I don't know if we could have any intimacy (oral,vibrator, hand) if that were on my mind.

I assure you I will not be watching her have sex with another man. Its not that I want it to happen, it more less needs to happen as I am unable. I am still not wanting to see it happen.

Is it best to have this conversation in the bedroom during intimacy or more over dinner as a discussion? I have ED that is prohibitive to sex so we fool around on a very limited basis and I am not certain it would be the right forum as it is very frustrating to both of us and we tend to end...

I understand your situation is different than mine and appreciate the advice. In my case it is not likley that my situatin will change. My doctor has pretty much laid that out to me. We are willing to try things but hope is guarded at best. I hear what you are saying about not rushing into...