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I think you're asking your wife the wrong question. Why don't you ask her what SHE fantasizes about, something she thinks SHE would like to try, and then start there? Maybe she'd be excited to give you a blowjob in a strip club. Maybe she thinks it'd be fun to expose herself to a stranger, and...

Totally agree with that for sure. Had to ask him to dial it back a little. He's an experienced man who saw a beautiful wife, excited to experiment, with zero experience, that was saying yes to all his suggestions, no husband in sight....I think we needed to lower his expectations on that quite a...

Ah! Thanks for asking. Yes, they're gonna meet for coffee together on Friday. They've been sexting every night for a week, she's had a great time with it. I think that early on he somehow got the impression that this was a dom/bull kind of situation, so we both had to clarify that for him. If he...

Well, what do you know lol. So far I've found that Doublelist has been nothing but pervs, weirdos and obvious fakes. Then yesterday this dude responds to our ad, he and I start chatting.....he is our age, tall, more than reasonably handsome, local to us....intelligent, worldly, respectful, and...

I agree....we may just have to give up on the online route, and find our own Hilton Head Island somewhere.

Appreciate that....found four guys within 25 miles of us that still have active accounts, but three of them are extreme frequent flyers that have accounts and ads posted anywhere you can think of....the last one seems to have a strong resemblance to Chewbacca, lol.

No, and we've been looking for the last three months or so....SLS, put an ad on Doublelist, etc. Because of our past experiences we are going to take our time and find someone who is a very good fit....I want my wife to have a great experience, so not going to share her with just anyone. At this...

Thank you, and yes, gave that a look. Eight guys on Kasidie around our age withing a 25mi radius from us....in the East Bay, that's prob a population of at least 1.5 million people, within an hour's drive? One guy actually sounded like a possible fit....same age as my wife, tall, Italian (or so...

Thanks for the reply. At least in our area, it appears to be the same exact circle of people at all of the nearby parties (to the point of being ridiculous)....and it also didn't help that the very first couple that we talked to (that probably saw a newbie couple coming a mile away) invited us...

Thanks, might take a look at Tinder....I had always assumed that was just singles.

There's actually a small group of black men about 10 minutes from us, that cater to that fantasy. When I discovered and mentioned it to the wife, I was actually surprised she didn't shoot the idea down right away, and instead started asking questions about it. When I mentioned that these things...

Yes, that's exactly how I would see it unfolding, once we met someone a few times that we both feel good about.

Ours is definitely more of a stag/vixen relationship....we do a fair amount of D/s role play. Regarding these new adventures, she's still a newbie, and up until recently, as her second husband I was also only the second man she had ever been with. So far I have always been there to make sure she...

Yeah, its the pay attention to who you talk to that worries me. I had definitely considered Fetlife, but after some of our experiences with SLS.....I was kind of worried it might be worse instead of better. Would take a ton of trust to eventually let her play on her own....my wife is easily the...

I mean, I do understand that there's going to be some emotional involvement....like I tried to say above, that's just the way my wife is built. She's not really wired to have sex with a stranger she just met an hour ago....and I wouldn't ask her to do that. She should actually like the guy she's...

I know of it, they have a rather heavy presence in our area. Whats been your experience with it? I know someone in a D role would appeal to her (a lot).

Excellent point. Definitely physical, I know we both agree on that. On the other hand my wife happens to be the most sensual and passionate woman I've ever met, which is probably the reason the single guys fell for her. And add to that the energy that comes with the first real sexual exploration...

Thanks for the input....there are a lot of sites here in Nor Cal, but sifting through all the static has been extremely challenging, the weirdo ratio has been extremely high. We've discussed finding a guy out of the area....we have traveled out of the area to meet a few couples. The problem...

A few good suggestions. Swing clubs were an obvious choice....when we started this adventure two years ago, my wife Lynn had met her first husband when she was 14, then when they split she met me, so she had zero experience with dating, or meeting anyone. So....meeting a guy at a swing club that...

Where did you have your good luck at?