I know this is an old post, so not holding our much hope, but think you’ve described me and my other half perfectly. We would love to talk about fantasies, and maybe delve deeper and have someone to enjoy talking to that we felt comfortable with. Hope to hear from you soon.
I think I’d be the same, as in itself, it doesn’t do anything for me, but if she was into it, and had just come home from a nights fun, then I’d be cleaning for ages. Plus, if it made her have less doubts or second thoughts, I’d be there instantly.
I think that’s sexy, it’s all so natural and if it happens, then it’s a bonus, if not, then so be it! I’d love to be in bed next to my girl knowing she had been texted “ by mistake” , but a lot would depend on how creative the texter was as well.