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Also wanted to mention that I'm no pushover in the thrill and excitement area either! I realize the excitement and anticipation of another man being included is intense (from our sessions we've had so far I have observed this myself). However, I am pretty good at bringing that out of her right...

I appreciate your response. I don't agree however. I'm not saying that isn't your experience! But I know my wife, she isn't that type for many reasons. She's told me numerous times that if I wanted to stop at any time she's fine with it. I'm great in bed and already completely satisfy her, so...

I'm talking about how some people seem to believe there's only one way to go about this and if I don't do it that way, I'm doing it wrong.

How do we verify? I'm not showing our faces on here.

No she won't because she's not a cheater. We're a team. Everything we do, we do with the other in mind. Good lord what is wrong with some of the people here. Do you really live your lives like this? Concerned only with your wife's crotch and not a thought given to delicate matters of the heart...

Why? We're having fun so far and I feel mostly good with it to this point. If you are willing, I'd like to hear your reasoning. I'm willing to listen and heed warnings if I know why.

I wouldn't be happy being the city streets. I want to please her and make her happy with my sex. The other guy is just variety.... Not "better". At least that's what I hope...

I read the first few lines of this post. She knows I'm here. I showed her the thread. She informed my previous response. Again, assuming things. I'm not sure who you are but I really hope that first timers aren't taking your advice to heart. You're going 100mph straight into cuck territory and...

Interesting. What's your dynamic and in what ways did your views and feelings change?

Do you believe that it's a foregone conclusion that if I start sharing her that she will eventually find other men that she likes to have sex with more than me? Are you turned on by that idea?

I can get down with this advice. It does make sense. I think about how I'd feel with two girls 🤤. I just don't want to ever feel like she likes them more. I'm good with being voltron and coming together with him to give her a mind blowing experience. I just don't want to sit on the sidelines. I...

This post is unhinged. You make a LOT of assumptions. You clearly don't understand the situation and can't relate. I'm glad that you're happy with what you're doing. But your advice is horrible. I should feel pain and suffer in silence while I let my wife go out with other men? I should sit at...

That's great man, I love hearing this. You have it all! Love, companionship, friendship, and you're her best sex even after the other guys. That's what we want. I love hearing stuff like this.

Thank you for the insightful reply. I understand what you're saying. The comparing aspect is what is paralyzing me from going further. I want to be compared.... And I want to be best in her eyes. That's risky (not according to her though 🙄). Honestly we aren't looking to make her a hotwife. I...

Is it selfish of me that I always want to be in on the action? I'm not comfortable just standing there watching him take her from me. I want to be part of her pleasure. More of a threesome than hotwife I guess. Are you still your wife's best sex? Or are you the one she goes home to after...

I'm not worried about our marriage. We are deeply in love with each other. And for us I know my wife wouldn't enjoy it if she knew it caused me pain. I also don't let her kiss the guy we play with. That's an act of love and reserved for me. There's passionate emotion attached to it. I spoke to...

Possibly. We can just stick to my current comfort level with other men and get with single girls and couples (she REALLY wants to watch me fuck a hot girl or bull for a couple).

I'm not worried 1% about our marriage. It is rock solid. But I couldn't look at myself in the mirror as a man if I knew the woman I love considers other men to be better than me sexually. As long as I knew I'm still the best, I'm emboldened to get buck wild. But if I'm no longer the best sex for...

Thanks for the reply. I have zero interest in being humiliated or being made to feel like less of a man. To what you've said, I've spoken to many couples that do this and I notice that the determination of if the girl has better sex with other men is that the bf /husband gets off on that idea...

How do you not feel second best sexually to the one you love in those situations? So you're saying she is incorrect and if we do this enough eventually some guy will be sexually better than me in her eyes? We really enjoy where we're at now. Do you think there's anything wrong with just...