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you probably would slip out then. just dont get frustrated. if it doesnt work out, just go along for the ride and be there with her while she takes it

My wife recently informed me about an exchange with one of her male co-workers (call him, Rob). They get along quite well, he's single and in the same age group as us - early 50s. While discussing their histories, etc., the topic of 'unconventional' relationships came up. He discussed his...

wonderinf the same thing

When we started the swingers journey, we came across a couple who were a great match. First time we met, my wife was sick and we had to cut the get together short. They were good sports so we tried again. This time they invited us to a hotel and things got a little more heated - though...

absolutely! he threatened to bring us in on indecency charges. after some pleading he agreed we should've waited to get home

While we weren't playing with anyone else ourselves, we found ourselves in the same predicament a number of years ago when, after a night out, we got frisky on the way home. She offered car head and ... who was I to turn it down? It got so good I pulled over. About 10 minutes in, I hear a tap...

absolutely.

how so?

we've debated bringing friends into the conversation. actually, she's debated talking to her bff about it over drinks a couple of times. I've actually told her it's okay, but she knows once the cat is out of the bag ... well, it's difficult to put back in. other than that, her former roommate...

We have a similar arrangement. Going on 6 years with the same guy. He always hosts at his place, since we cannot. It's been about once a month as of late, but not a calendar item either. Started off with condoms but they haven't used them in at least 4 years. Giving credit where due, the...

To answer your question, I don't think there's a 'need' to tell your regular friend, unless there was a prior agreement to do so. That said, adding variety can work a number of ways for your wife, and eventually her preferences might also adjust. As mine has said, everyone is different, of...

similar story at a place called the green door in Vegas. my wife and a fellow patron (BBC) hit it up, she grabbed my hand and asked me to follow. unfortunately, the place doesn't have anymore private spaces and wife was weary about the large audience that started to form (she says it would be...

did you? did anyone say anything to you? how did you feel having an audience?

super lucky for sure. unfortunately, our wives are not usually 'on' as much as we, but when she tells me she's making plans, I'm fully on board :)

I'm not sure what you're asking

oh, he taps it regularly ... he knows he's lucky

I'll be doing the same tomorrow ...

not in Vegas, but something that can be arranged fairly easily anywhere, I suppose

I'd be curious to know - does the preference for 'alone' vs. 'being there' change over time? In our case, it seems it might have. She used to prefer that I'm present (and still doesn't mind), even with a regular fuck-buddy but she's quite comfortable now if I'm not there. I don't mind, and in...

it looks like no one panicked when this typo occurred (intentional or not). If she meant to call you on it, chances are she'll try again. At that point, it's probably a sure bet she wants to let you know that she knows and maybe even talk about it?