She is so hot! I happen to like the Hilton hotels myself. Two of my favorites are the Hilton Hawaiian Village in Honolulu, HI, and the Hilton at Vanderbilt,TN. Have you ever been to either?
Pick a good time and be honest with him. Tell him how much it will help as a couple. I will even send you a pic of my 9 inches to show and get a discussion going.
I have 9inches and I am new to the lifestyle also. I am also very gentle because not many women have been able to handle mine at first. My ex wife always kidded me that I have been a porn actor before lol. Message me if she's interested.