Both have there merits. Waiting with your wife for her bull to arrive is a very arousing time. Him approaching the bed with his black pole jutting out in front of him. Her laying on the bed and opening her legs for him. The look on her face as it slides inside her are all somtimes to much to...
I trained with a group of guys at the gym I use. A few of them were black guys. Wife picked me up one night and we gave one of the black guys a lift home. I noticed her keep looking at him in the mirror and him looking at her. When we dropped him off I told her I saw them looking at each other...
I love it when they kiss her. She was seeing a guy for a while who wife got semi involved and kissed and touched her. Unfortunately I was never present.