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Thanks all - I have appreciated all posts. We have decided to take a break/split up, wife has admitted this was going on longer than I thought. So I guess this was more cheating and going elsewhere than anything else and yes, maybe I did not understand enough the ethos of this site, I can get...

If you look at the site's name you can see why it came up (first I think) when I googled 'wife wants to cheat?'. I then thought - as has been proven correct - that yes, those more appreciative of these choices might have a deeper perspective than the almost certain lightweight advice I would get...

Thanks all - we have our 'showdown' later when back from work. I will try to find out how serious this is relationship wise, then take it from there. Hard to gauge her mood as she tries to avoid me. But she agreed to talk later.

Very late. We agreed to talk later today. She has admitted they are an item.

Ha! I'm still not entirely sure where she wants to go with this, she has been at work all day and lo and behold, called around 8 when her shift ends to say she would be late again so don't wait up. So I am not sure if I am indeed being cuckolded or booted out! We will talk it all through soon I...

Update: I want to thank you all for warning me it was very likely my wife was having sex with another guy. She finally came home at 9:30 am and was rather silly, walking away and not wanting to talk. She would just laugh if I asked did something go on I should know about. Then she said she...

Ah man it does seem so I cannot deny. Almost 5 am now! I will try to sleep

Only that it is 2:25 am here and she is still not home!

Thanks. Well yes have decided no point trying to stop her. Will be an uncomfortable night though knowing I'm home and she out....doing whatever ....

Yes, am in UK

Well it is time to accept this is indeed all a setup and worse, maybe they have already had sex. She left her phone in a room while showering, I opened the FB messenger and bang, very first chat at top was her and him. I read he said ' and then after we can go back to my place and have fun' to...

Thanks - I will try to find out more from her today before the date and as has been said on here, try to listen more for what she is not saying than what she is. See if there are other signs. I don't think I should try to stop it as she will just call me nuts and we have a very uncomfortable...

Quick update: She just came home (1 30 am) and I asked if her date with him was still on Saturday night. She said yes and the conversation went so: 'So you will be presenting him to a friend?' 'Yes' 'She has agreed?' 'Not yet, waiting to hear from her'. You people are good, you saw through...

Not easy to accept but you may well be right

Ah man that's tough but thanks, makes me think

:) I did not know too much about cuckolding (knew some basics), was when I searched 'wife issues' or whatever I did,this site came up. I guess there could be an element of this going on but it could also be serious cheating that gets out of hand. Mostly as she avoids me but is still going out...

Thanks all. Well they have changed their date to tomorrow evening so another 24 hours of wonder! Is hard not to think something is up as I have noticed when I talk to her sometimes she rushes to hide her phone or remove its screen from my view - certainly not something she ever did before. Was...

Thanks for above. Yes, I am realising I have to accept something is going on or being arranged. Will try to talk to her more as I don't want to lose her but I do need to know what she is expecting from this relationship with him and where I now am in the scope of things.

Just found out they are now friends on FB. o_O

Thanks all, I do appreciate all responses and the clear talking. I will try to write a bit more detailed tomorrow as a bit busy at work today. But again, thanks - is good to be made to think about all aspects of this.