A declaration of love

malky

Male
How many wives openly admit to being in love with their affair partner?

My wife has had several long term affairs during her hotwifing years. Probably her first boyfriend was her favourite. They were usually dating three nights per week, when he would wine and dine her before taking her back to his apartment to fuck her.

My wife always insisted that their affair was strictly for fun and sex, but I can't help but wonder if their relationship went much deeper.

My reason for doubt arises from my own affair. I was with her (Pauline) for more than a year, and I was in love with her. Every time we made love I told her how much I loved her, but with hindsight, it was a big mistake. It led her to believe believe that we had a long term future together, which was never my intention. I loved my wife far too much to ever contemplate leaving her, however, I came to realise that it is possible to love two people at the same time.

How is it possible that a woman can spend three nights a week with a man, spending two hours or more, naked in his bed giving her all to him, making passionate love and not telling him that she loves him?

Their affair finished when his contract at work came to an end, and he returned to his home town which was two hundred miles away. He begged my wife to go with him but she refused.

He was obviously in love with her and she was probably in love with him, but did she ever tell him so? I often wonder, but she'll never admit it.

Are there other wives on this forum who openly admit to being in love with their affair partner?