FYI: This is a shared account.
We are from the East IL/WI border
WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR:
At the very least we’d be happy just to make some new friends! Overall we are looking for a down to earth, straightforward, fun and like-minded couple to meet and hangout with. We are hopeful we can connect with the right people. Both of us are open minded to new and fun experiences. We have decided that we would like to add a little more adventure and excitement into our lives as we enter our 40’s, so you must be patient with us as it may take us a little time to warm up to things. Having a connection with the right people is a must! Our age range is roughly 26-46, but that could vary depending.
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DESCRIPTION:
We are just your ordinary couple and have been together since high school. We are still very much madly in love. I'd say we both can be a little shy at first depending, but overall we are genuine and down to earth people that enjoy having a good time and getting to know new people. We can be big dorks when we want to be and don't really care what people think. Some interests we have are movies, photography, bike riding and many other things! We are D&DF other than maybe the occasional green.
HER: (Pansexual)
She can be a little shy depending but mostly is very outgoing and sweet, with a genuine and nurturing personality. Is very old school with and old soul. Usually prefers to chat in person over online. She tends to be pretty social when she connects with the right person, especially after having a couple drinks! With that, when she becomes comfortable and connected with that person, she can tend to get pretty flirty and begin to expose that wild side that hide’s behind that innocent look of hers! So watch out ladies!! What helps with her attraction to others (guy or girl) is someone who is fun, unique & attractive, confident and takes charge. Not afraid to be themselves… being 100% real. Being fake is a HUGE turn off for her… it all comes down to having that connection.
HIM: (Hetrosexual)
He tends to be a little bit reserved at first. It may take him a little more time to warm up to new people, but that could also depend on if there’s an immediate connection or not. Though he sometimes may seem a little quiet at first, he will eventually open up once he becomes comfortable, especially if there is a mutual interest! For the most part he is laid back and pretty chill! Though on the outside he may not always look it, he definitely has a warm heart and personality on the inside. He is respectful and polite and appreciates someone with some common sense and is real and straightforward! He absolutely does not take kindly to people who are full of themselves and bring on any drama. Cuz who’s got time for that??
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FANTASIES:
Girl on girl play is up there on the list for her! But there’s more… so ask!
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ADDITIONAL COMMENTS:
To the single males: She is open minded to this…... but trust will need to be earned, and having a connection and chemistry is an absolute must! An attractive guy who takes care of himself and can hold a conversation is preferred. Someone with a good sense a humor and can be funny is a big plus! (And she likes tattoos!) We’d appreciate someone who is patient with a mature personality. Also must be respectful and mindful of our needs and boundaries. Keep in mind, this is fairly new to us. For us it’s not about the sex but the overall experience, and we would expect the same from you. So if you aren't patient than I suggest you look elsewhere. We’d like an idea of what you look like; so if your comfortable let’s see some pictures! And if you wanna share a pic of your wang, that’s fine… we just ask you put a little more effort into introducing yourself then just a pic of your junk. We’d prefer to see your face too… so smile pretty and send one our way! We do respect others privacy as we like to be discreet as well. But please add a little description of yourself at the very least! We don’t respond to messages that just say “hey” because we get flooded with messages. We only will respond to the ones that stand out. First impressions are lasting impressions. So put in a little effort!
Another note: Hubby usually does the searching online. When we find someone of interest then she will become more involved in the conversations. Preferably on SnapChat.
Disclaimer: Our schedules can be limited due to the fact that we have kids. So we require someone with a little more patience as we do find it sometimes difficult to get out. Plus we would like to take our time to get to know you a little bit.
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We aren’t all that extreme in the bedroom to what you may normally see in this lifestyle and honestly I’d say we gear more towards the vanilla side of things. Not to say we’re boring, because we definitely are not! But we are open minded to trying new things and spicing things up! That’s why we are here! With that, we are looking to learn a lot more that comes with this lifestyle and seeing how it could enhance out relationship and sex life. So we look forward to chatting with others who have some stories to tell!

We are from the East IL/WI border
WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR:
At the very least we’d be happy just to make some new friends! Overall we are looking for a down to earth, straightforward, fun and like-minded couple to meet and hangout with. We are hopeful we can connect with the right people. Both of us are open minded to new and fun experiences. We have decided that we would like to add a little more adventure and excitement into our lives as we enter our 40’s, so you must be patient with us as it may take us a little time to warm up to things. Having a connection with the right people is a must! Our age range is roughly 26-46, but that could vary depending.
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DESCRIPTION:
We are just your ordinary couple and have been together since high school. We are still very much madly in love. I'd say we both can be a little shy at first depending, but overall we are genuine and down to earth people that enjoy having a good time and getting to know new people. We can be big dorks when we want to be and don't really care what people think. Some interests we have are movies, photography, bike riding and many other things! We are D&DF other than maybe the occasional green.
HER: (Pansexual)
She can be a little shy depending but mostly is very outgoing and sweet, with a genuine and nurturing personality. Is very old school with and old soul. Usually prefers to chat in person over online. She tends to be pretty social when she connects with the right person, especially after having a couple drinks! With that, when she becomes comfortable and connected with that person, she can tend to get pretty flirty and begin to expose that wild side that hide’s behind that innocent look of hers! So watch out ladies!! What helps with her attraction to others (guy or girl) is someone who is fun, unique & attractive, confident and takes charge. Not afraid to be themselves… being 100% real. Being fake is a HUGE turn off for her… it all comes down to having that connection.
HIM: (Hetrosexual)
He tends to be a little bit reserved at first. It may take him a little more time to warm up to new people, but that could also depend on if there’s an immediate connection or not. Though he sometimes may seem a little quiet at first, he will eventually open up once he becomes comfortable, especially if there is a mutual interest! For the most part he is laid back and pretty chill! Though on the outside he may not always look it, he definitely has a warm heart and personality on the inside. He is respectful and polite and appreciates someone with some common sense and is real and straightforward! He absolutely does not take kindly to people who are full of themselves and bring on any drama. Cuz who’s got time for that??
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FANTASIES:
Girl on girl play is up there on the list for her! But there’s more… so ask!
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ADDITIONAL COMMENTS:
To the single males: She is open minded to this…... but trust will need to be earned, and having a connection and chemistry is an absolute must! An attractive guy who takes care of himself and can hold a conversation is preferred. Someone with a good sense a humor and can be funny is a big plus! (And she likes tattoos!) We’d appreciate someone who is patient with a mature personality. Also must be respectful and mindful of our needs and boundaries. Keep in mind, this is fairly new to us. For us it’s not about the sex but the overall experience, and we would expect the same from you. So if you aren't patient than I suggest you look elsewhere. We’d like an idea of what you look like; so if your comfortable let’s see some pictures! And if you wanna share a pic of your wang, that’s fine… we just ask you put a little more effort into introducing yourself then just a pic of your junk. We’d prefer to see your face too… so smile pretty and send one our way! We do respect others privacy as we like to be discreet as well. But please add a little description of yourself at the very least! We don’t respond to messages that just say “hey” because we get flooded with messages. We only will respond to the ones that stand out. First impressions are lasting impressions. So put in a little effort!
Another note: Hubby usually does the searching online. When we find someone of interest then she will become more involved in the conversations. Preferably on SnapChat.
Disclaimer: Our schedules can be limited due to the fact that we have kids. So we require someone with a little more patience as we do find it sometimes difficult to get out. Plus we would like to take our time to get to know you a little bit.
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We aren’t all that extreme in the bedroom to what you may normally see in this lifestyle and honestly I’d say we gear more towards the vanilla side of things. Not to say we’re boring, because we definitely are not! But we are open minded to trying new things and spicing things up! That’s why we are here! With that, we are looking to learn a lot more that comes with this lifestyle and seeing how it could enhance out relationship and sex life. So we look forward to chatting with others who have some stories to tell!
