Hubby here needing advice for a complicated situation. We’ve been together for 18 years, open for 10, focused on hotwife bbc separate play for last 5 years.
In 2020, right when Covid arrived, my wife and I started having marriage issues. For the last 2 years we have been going to therapy and improving our relationship, but it has affected our intimacy; and her and her bulls intimacy. My wife and I have not had sex for 7 months, and she has not been with her bull that entire time…I know this because we both agreed she could play with him even if we were not intimate, and she has chosen not to. I think my wife and I are close to healed, and ready to be intimate again, but she is expressing reservations about trying the lifestyle again. As much as I know I shouldn’t push it, we were doing the IR hotwife thing for so long that I can’t imagine not having that as a part of our relationship. Her last regular bbc bull of 4 years, who she regularly keeps in touch with, was a perfect situation. He has a massive cock, he’s a gentleman, he cums over and over without stopping, lives relatively close, and most importantly has established trust so they never use condoms.
Bottom line: in a perfect world, she would be down to try it again with this guy. I’d also like for him to have primary access to her sexually…my kink is starting to grow into a few cuckold tendencies. I’m not a beta who wants to be humiliated, but rather I want my wife to become addicted to his bbc such that he gets way more access to her pussy, but not exclusive access.
Yesterday she made it clear to me that she is not closing any doors, but I can tell I need to tread carefully here. Any advice for re-entering this lifestyle after a ****** break? This is different than the threads on convincing a wife to try ….she’s been there done that. It’s convincing her to try again.
Thanks!
In 2020, right when Covid arrived, my wife and I started having marriage issues. For the last 2 years we have been going to therapy and improving our relationship, but it has affected our intimacy; and her and her bulls intimacy. My wife and I have not had sex for 7 months, and she has not been with her bull that entire time…I know this because we both agreed she could play with him even if we were not intimate, and she has chosen not to. I think my wife and I are close to healed, and ready to be intimate again, but she is expressing reservations about trying the lifestyle again. As much as I know I shouldn’t push it, we were doing the IR hotwife thing for so long that I can’t imagine not having that as a part of our relationship. Her last regular bbc bull of 4 years, who she regularly keeps in touch with, was a perfect situation. He has a massive cock, he’s a gentleman, he cums over and over without stopping, lives relatively close, and most importantly has established trust so they never use condoms.
Bottom line: in a perfect world, she would be down to try it again with this guy. I’d also like for him to have primary access to her sexually…my kink is starting to grow into a few cuckold tendencies. I’m not a beta who wants to be humiliated, but rather I want my wife to become addicted to his bbc such that he gets way more access to her pussy, but not exclusive access.
Yesterday she made it clear to me that she is not closing any doors, but I can tell I need to tread carefully here. Any advice for re-entering this lifestyle after a ****** break? This is different than the threads on convincing a wife to try ….she’s been there done that. It’s convincing her to try again.
Thanks!