Any Way to Safely Explore a Cheating Kink?

So me and my wife have always been honest and loyal to each other. A may of you have seen some other threads and she has had a few missteps she has later confessed to. The last guy she played with she eneded up hiding dms and not being honest about communication, which goes against the boundaries we agreed to. She does like to play solo which she has said is paritally because she feels like shes "cheating" even if she records. It seems that this doesn't quite reach that itch. The last guy came back and was trying to get her to delete all their dms after he found out she got in trouble cuz he assumed she was that kind of wife, which shes not. Early in her hotwife career she started getting into homewrecking and I think it exposed her to all this cheating stuff which she has secretly loved. We just dont want it to damage our relationship.

She has admitted she does have a cheating kink, so is there a way we can safely explore this while still keeping constant communication about everything she is doing? She is allowed to go on dating sites and find guys but we always talk in depth about everything that she is doing and the conversations she has.