How come when I ask my wife if she will fuck someone else ?she seems to get defensive, and say if I want to go fuck someone else .go ahead I’m confused
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She probably is questioning your motives. It should be something she wants to do AND would like to include you in the process.
Maybe she is not ready. She is open to it but its not the time in her eyes. She has given you permission so do it.
You need to be patient and sow the seed which you have. Mention it from time to time but don’t pressure her as she doesn’t understand why you want her to. You need to communicate your feelings and reassure her that you don’t want to play with someone else. I wouldn’t take her up on her statement to go have fun with someone else. I don’t think she is genuinely giving you permission, she is confused and thinks that is what you want to do by asking her to do the same. It took me a couple of yrs to convince my wife to give it a go. We had our first meet in 2008 and have had a lot of fun since. I don’t join in, I just watch and take pics and movie clips. In short, communicate, be patient and don’t pressure her. She may or may not come round to the idea in time
Dang Paul, that's spot on perfect advice! Most wives have no clue of cuckolding much less being a shared wife. Its a risky time because if she thinks you pushed her into something for your own gain, she might be pissed and walk. If she initially shows zero interest just stop. If she's curious then go easy and introduce your sexy ideas a little at a time. I spent a long time 'earning' special points in being a better husband (flowers, dates, special things) and one day she offered to do something to pay me back for extras. It was nothing but we started with watching wifesharing porn videos and bam, here we are. lol. Its uncharted water my friend so drift into it while LISTENING to her desires. Good luck and best to you all!!
that is a very common response, women are very insecure in their relationships and marriages. they feel that you are trying to justify your screwing other women by telling her to screw other men. you need to discuss your fantasies with her and try to assure her that you have no intentions of going with other women
My wife had the same reaction... thought I wanted to segue into swinging. I told her my fantasy has been since the beginning which is why I asked so many questions about ex boyfriends.
It’s been 15 years since I shared my fantasy... and her reaction has been hit and cold. At first, after lots of discussion, she was willing to do something (never followed through). Then she got religious. We’ve been in and out of this cycle ever since.
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