My story is pretty typical. Been married for 18 years. Told my wife of my fantasy to see her with another man. She said no, then maybe. We were roleplaying and I was sharing her pics online with great reactions. It got to the point where I was looking for someone to meet up with. Found a couple who was looking for another woman and made plans. But the plans fell through, and since then the wife has been adamant on not doing it. Everything was shut down-roleplay, online sharing, etc. She’s coming up with all the typical objections, adding on with religious guilt. I’m at a lost. The more we don’t discuss it, the more intense my desire is for it. And I know given the opportunity with the right guy, she would do it. I’ve actually started looking into finding someone to seduce her, but I don’t know if that will even pan out. We are in Southern Oregon, and all the competent men are way up north.
At a lost
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Communication is key here. Not to convince her but to listen to her. You let her know her your desire. She knows it. But, it sounds like you are not listening to her. You need to start there. More of your ears and less of your mouth for now.
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