Beginner hotwife: solodates in October

I dont know if i could handle a monthy most has been a little over two.weeks she made me get her ready for her dates even set up dinner and hotel reservations ..When she returned home she unlocked me and gave me a very intense hand job amd let me cum
I understand. I find i peak at about 10-14 days with crazy hardons straining at my cage. Last month I came once handsfree ruined at my shared office desk and another time intensely ruined at my home office.
After those 14 days i am such a sub and am very disappointed if she wants to make me cum.
 
Im already on day 3 on the first day of loctober 😀. She surprised me, I thought the serious pounding in gave would make her want more.
She said she wanted to regain her power after her diasappointment with her first experience.

After 3 days of me screening and making first contact online she's picked 4 experienced, validated and hung men out of the 10 i selected. She immediately sent them all a text that she wants to meet for a non sex date end of next week or the week after.

Wow, love it, she wants to get going on this and she was really happy with my pre selection. She wants me in a cafe nearby while they meet.
 
It's progressing nicely here.
She is getting seriously horny again, is very, very excited and a little bit nervous. She is now chatting with 4 guys. First dates fixed with 3 and one getting fixed. She's not much into the texting, so it's a few texts, maybe a video call and quickly to the first drink date.

Her first drink date friday 10/10 is in another city 1.5hrs away (we will stay a night). Normally just a meet, but we are both open to more happening. He is experienced, great validations, very good in his texting, they will video call this week before the date. She finds him very handsome, and the photo of him and his huge cock makes her pussy flow. lol. He also has to drive 2+hrs so i expect him to stay the night. Yes 2+ hours is a lot for a date in Belgium/Netherlands/France lol.

Another drink date is arranged for 16/10 not far away. The man is booking a hotel room, so you never know..... She is very hot for him.
Another drink date is arranged for 17/10 but she is not as hot for him but curious.
And a fourth possible to be fixed for the week after.
 
From the 4 possibles it's been cut down to 2 based upon some red flags in the chats. So we cancelled 2 first meets. 1 other guy the meet has to be setup yet and she said she wants to keep it to 2 for now as otherwise it would be too much for her.

She already had her first getting to know date on saturday 11th for 2 hours while i waited nearby. It was a good meet.
He's an experienced 3rd, 40 (she is 55), very carefull, not pushy, 6ft6, has a big, dick, fit, very handsome, smart, gentleman, lives 3 hours away in another country.......

The solo meet was him learning about her, and us making sure as a new couple we knew what we were starting and knew what we wanted. They talked openly about sex but it was also very intelectual about the lifestyle.

A few hours after the meet he texted that he had thought about her a lot and started sexting with her. He said he got hard during the meet listening to her and looking at her. Yesterday evening they were sexting again about, multi orgasms, oral skills....... She was totally on fire so we fucked like animals while they sexted. Amazing really. In the morning i had already intensely fucked her to 4 orgasms with a big 9x7.5 sleeve, damn she is horny as hell.

They both want to have some video calls this week and plan in the next meet. Will it be the DDay or maybe just kissing? Promising.
 
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Lots of thinking and talking here. We want to keep going and now she realises she would like to discover swinging clubs, sex parties etc... just to try and see.

So they had a first solo drink meet 8 days ago (2hrs) and have had some calls (about 4hrs in total) and are connecting really well. We all want to move forward.
In the meantime my wife and I are fucking like animals, my PE is suddenly gone and i can pound her for ages. She's a slut for me, and we've done things we've never done. We are switching between me being the dom (mostly) fucking her as a slut. I've always been waiting for her to open up sexually and reveal her 'slut'. I'm so happy she's doing it and we are having the best, and hottest, passionate sex of our 23 years. One time at the end she switched and said "i now want you to cum quickly (lol after 20min of pounding). She teased me about being smaller than him, got in doggy and i blew my load after a few thrusts. Very hot.

We've had a few lots and lots of talks about how she needs to include me, me giving her space, and she likes his and my proposals on how to do this. He's talked about how he will "take us over" in a sexual context, she loves that. Their first time having sex will be alone, and if it goes well all 3 of us are interested in getting me involved, whether watching or submitting, etc....

They will have another call this week to sort things out and get the next meet fixed with in a week or 2.
Our idea is the three of us meet for a drink (first time for me). She will sit next to me. I will give a signal if I am okay with him (my guess is i will be from her feedback). Then she will move and sit next to him. This is like saying "i'm his now, now i want him to fuck him". My wife finds this "choosing him above me/the transfer" extremely arousing.

Whether they touch and kiss in front of me (hopefully) is up to her. Then after the drink or 2 they will go the the location and hopefully have a great time. I will then join her after he leaves or see her at home (5min away).