Do we loose the excitement with age?

At 30, just the thought of wife potentially having a sex date would give me a 24hr hardon and I could think of nothing else. Now at almost 60, its still exciting but nowhere near the same intensity. Barely a twitch in my groins.

Not talking about erection that some would say is definitely age. Maybe at 30, I was at real risk of loosing her to a better man. My feeling of inadequacy also played a role in the mix of feelings. Now, while still inadequate, I know she aint going to live me. (too much money in my 401k!)

I even get more pics and videos than ever before, thanks to technology. Today, she was excited but I had to make a conceited effort to prepare a meal and box it up so she could take down and they could save cooking time and spend more time fucking.