Do you guys like a heavy cage or something lighter personally I like a heavy one I like to know it’s there!!

I preferred the light ones. Mine were locked in place through my piercing hole (pa) that my Mrs had me get some time ago in hopes it would help me get her off and or help me last longer. The metal cages kept stretching the hole and even with my balls locked in. The plastic one are more comfortable especially if you just starting out. Also the plastic ones are more affordable and easier to clean.