Do you know of others into wife sharing or swinging?

[Loridan]

Do you know about anyone in your friend circle of who you work with that are into sex fun?
We don't.

This was WAY before we got into our own sex fun with another guy.

About ten years ago we were in a pretty big social group, lots of gatherings, dinners at restaurants and people's houses, bbq at people's homes some overnight trips and things like this. We knew probably 75 couples, it was fun.
As we got to know about others, what they did for work, where they lived, etc we'd kinda hear rumors about swingers and things like that. We had couples themselves tell us that they were swingers and/or nudists. We wanted nothing to do with anything like that.
I can honestly say NONE of these people had the body type you'd want to see naked much less have sex with.

Present day we do get with a guy we know for mfm fun. None of our friends know we do this, we keep it very private.
We have certain couples were pretty close with and enjoy the hot tub topless. Nothing sexual has ever happened and we don't do this often. It is very sexy seeing the wives tits but that's all that happens.

 

[GrovelingCuck]

The more you swing, the more swingers you get to know, and there are a lot of couples like you @Loridan who do but keep it on the DL. For example, we have met couples on vacation who are "vacation swingers" only.

In our vanilla circles we don't speak of swinging yet brought one couple into the LS. I helped a friend install a sliding glass shower door. I jokingly told him my payment was to receive a pic of his wife's tits pressed against it. To my surprise he delivered. Fast forward one month and we're swapping wives.

We have 3 or 4 swinger clubs within an hour or so drive. We have been to all of them, and it's inevitable you will see some one there you know.

 

[Mwstag]

We have friends we met swinging, but wouldn't consider going the other way- bringing friends into our playtime. I did it once as a young man and it was very messy.

If a vanilla friend were to ask, we deny, evade and diatract.

 

[WifeBreeder]

Any swinging bars in vegas?

 

[Stevens4fun]

I'm probably the oldest guy in here, and have been married twice - both wives have been willing participants in all kinds of sexy and fun extracirricular escapes, almost of which were mutually satisfying at some level. Like Loridan (thanks to Loridan for bringing this up, - brought a smile to our faces) we started off with hot tub adventures. Living in a townhouse apartment at that time, we didn't yet have kids, nor did we have a hot tub. But......on a hill overlooking a beautiful lake there was a business that had installed about 30 hot tubs and rented them out by the hour. Each of them had a three sided privacy fence and the 4th side was open to a view of the lake. The setting with the city lights reflecting off the lake on a warm summer night ws just made to order. Each hot tub enclosure included a couple of chaise lounges and enough space to lay a beach towel on the ground. It was BYOB of course, and in one of those hot tubs over a bottle of wine we were having a good time sexy talking and my wife told me she'd noticed a guy at her work and "if she was ever going to 'invite a guy home, he'd be the guy.'" Although I'd shared my interest in a mfm threesome arrange with her, this was her first acknowledgement that she was thinking about the same thing. She and I met another guy, and later we met a couple there at those hot tubs and the result was always at least "good" (sometimes excellent). It's amazing what you can do on a chaise lounge.....

Later, when I was married to my 2nd wife, we installed a hot tub at our home. We put it on a little patio outside of the slider that led into our bedroom which gave us access to both a shower and a bed. It was a good investment and I didn't mind doing the maintenance at all. Just looking at that hot tub brought to mind all kinds of debauchery!

 

[jusme]

My first wife used to flirt like crazy with my friends and the husbands of our friends. This led to some very interesting BBQs and parties. none of them knew about our way of life, but after our break up and I got with my gf they all came sniffing around again. So we carried on from where we left off only this time they knew I knew.
As for my present wife. When she agreed to be shared she met up with quite a few guys. They all knew about me letting her fuck who ever she wants to, but one guy got very possessive and contacted all my relatives and friends and told them I was letting other men fuck her. He was doing this to try and split us up, but it backfired and the police got involved. However all my family, cousins, sister, but not all my kids or my parents. He even told my work colleagues and bosses. So yes a few people got to know about our lifestyle

 

[BiggDave64]

My ex-wife had always been sexual with many guys before meeting me and stayed that way after meeting me and marrying me. My 1st 3-sum with her was with her brother- in-law, and he was cheating on his wife but it was a sex-fest that lasted for almost 6 hours. She had always flirted with guys and gals too if they wanted to flirt. After that it was with a guy I grew up with, while his wife watched and put him in my wife. She didn't mess around, but loved to see her husband dominate other women. Then we became swingers.
But then she started lying about things and I could handle the sex part, but not the lying part.

 

[Fl2play]

My first wife used to flirt like crazy with my friends and the husbands of our friends. This led to some very interesting BBQs and parties. none of them knew about our way of life, but after our break up and I got with my gf they all came sniffing around again. So we carried on from where we left off only this time they knew I knew.
As for my present wife. When she agreed to be shared she met up with quite a few guys. They all knew about me letting her fuck who ever she wants to, but one guy got very possessive and contacted all my relatives and friends and told them I was letting other men fuck her. He was doing this to try and split us up, but it backfired and the police got involved. However all my family, cousins, sister, but not all my kids or my parents. He even told my work colleagues and bosses. So yes a few people got to know about our lifestyle

Sounds like he became suicidal 😎😉

 

[strayder]

Only "swinger" I know of is my best friend, that have fucked all of my girlfriends and my wife and in the later years have let me fuck his wife, as a payback sort of... We have done threesomes and foursomes and in the years before my best friend got married she sometimes spent a night or two alone at his place and I always enjoyed getting her back in the morning well used and full of cum.. But other than that I don't know of anyone with the same "needs"...

 

[Happy Mom]

My hubby and I are swingers. I consider my husband more of a swinger than a cuck. However, I do get more action than he does and he doesn’t mind. We know other swinger by parties we attended or swinger groups we are part of.

 

[majorem]

I've been hit on my swinger couples a few times but it always catches me off-guard and I am usually clueless to it until my friend or wife point it out to me after the fact lol. My wife is not into swinging - we've talked about sharing her with another man but she is totally against any other women being involved.

It's funny, two times happened at birthday parties for friends, at bars with dancing and I'm usually oblivious to it until it's pointed out to me haha. Both times I went to get drinks and a guy strikes up conversation with me about whatever topic, we kind of hit off, then his wife shows up and starts eying me up, getting really flirty, putting her hand on me. One time I was ...... and really had no idea what they were putting out - my wife pulled me away at some point and was like "they were trying to pick you up" and I was like "huh?.... what are... oh, ooohhh, uhh yeah, I guess they were."

Another time I was at a strip club with my wife and went to get drinks and some older women with her husband started chatting me up, asking if I came there a lot, saying to let her know next time I went and asked for my number, which I just blurted off to her like an idea because I was semi-....... She then started texting me to meet her by the ladies room. My wife did not approve lol.

There was also a scandal in town recently because two guys were banging one of the guy's wives together and then I guess the other wife, who wasn't part of it, found out.

So, while it is certainly not the norm, others are out there, maybe more than we realize. I guess wife sharing porn has seen a lot of growth in recent years on pornhub and it is certainly appearing much more frequently in TV shows. It's funny, when the second season of White Lotus came out and one of the husbands kept fantasizing about his wife getting fucked by his friend, my wife said something like "he's like you, thinking about his wife getting fucked" and I think it made her feel like it was more normal. She's admitted it turns her on too but had been hung up on the fact that it's "weird" and not something normal people do.