I feel like I’m forcing her. After two months, she said she will take BBC one time only. She says there’s no way she will ever repeat. Now it seems I’m forcing her to do something she doesn’t want to do, she only wants from me what she expects to get in return (ie more control over financial and business decisions). Anyone have any thoughts on this? Any bulls seen this and were able to get the wife hooked regardless? Cucks, did this make you feel guilty? Wives, am I right to pull back or should I call her bluff on whether she wants a repeat?
Feel like I’m forcing BBC on her
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My wife didn’t need convincing she always had a personal preference for black guys so I didn’t have any guilt or problems and my wife loves cuckolding me , now in-your case maybe let it go if she wants to do it she will you can’t make her want to cuck you in my opinion maybe she feels guilty like she thinking she not normal or not suppose to be fucking guys outside her marriage something like that maybe let her come to it by herself
I wouldnt push it personally. If shes not 100% there isnt really enjoyment for either of you.. My 2 cents..
When we actually sat down with our heads out of the lust filled urges bombarding our senses that were present when we fantasised to each other when having sex, I was taken aback when her one condition of having another man join us to satisfy her sexually was that he had to be black, I was just never in a million years expecting her to say that. I queried her motives were based on the stories of apparent size differences, but she said it was because she thought I would not be up for it?
Fantasy is one thing, reality is another, if you are feeling in anyway that you are forcing or manipulating her, if you genuinely love her, take a step back and let her decide. We initially said it would only be the one time, and maybe it will, but ten years later we still enjoy nights out, and if it is only one time you need to talk honestly and openly without judgment, both of you have to go into this knowing it will change you both in one way or another, it’s up to you as a couple to make it work or not? It’s not for everyone but if you communicate and be truthful you can get a lot of positives from these experiences👍
Fantasy is one thing, reality is another, if you are feeling in anyway that you are forcing or manipulating her, if you genuinely love her, take a step back and let her decide. We initially said it would only be the one time, and maybe it will, but ten years later we still enjoy nights out, and if it is only one time you need to talk honestly and openly without judgment, both of you have to go into this knowing it will change you both in one way or another, it’s up to you as a couple to make it work or not? It’s not for everyone but if you communicate and be truthful you can get a lot of positives from these experiences👍
I need not say that every couple is different and one needs to do what works. And what works for one may not work for another.
I badgered my late wife for what seemed like forever until she finally acquiesced and agreed to once to get me off her back.
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I badgered my late wife for what seemed like forever until she finally acquiesced and agreed to once to get me off her back.
Is this the start or the end (part 1)?
Thursday, 8/30, I asked my wife if Gayle is going to join us for dinner Friday 8/31. (we're going out for pizza and Gayle's husband Jack is away). She's engrossed in reading a book and without any thought blurts out, "no, Gayle has a date." Then she realizes what she just said, stops reading...
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Thanks for your opinion. Your wife may not agree with you if she got to try it. Wouldn’t be the first time.
That’s similar to my situation, she knows my fantasy and has stated that she doesn’t want to risk our relationship, and that someone always gets hurt.
Her first husband shared her with a couple good friends, hot MFM pure sex… but then he got really weird about it and gave her a hard time for wanting to be with her lovers instead of him. He made it uncomfortable and she ended up leaving him for one of her lovers.
My wife has had amazing lovers that were hung, amazing lovers that were average, and she says I am the best oral that she has ever had. She says she is not interested at all in another lover, and a huge dick doesn’t excite her (been there done that.)
I still let her know we should get an escort for her when we go to Vegas! It will probably never happen, but I respect her choice.
Her first husband shared her with a couple good friends, hot MFM pure sex… but then he got really weird about it and gave her a hard time for wanting to be with her lovers instead of him. He made it uncomfortable and she ended up leaving him for one of her lovers.
My wife has had amazing lovers that were hung, amazing lovers that were average, and she says I am the best oral that she has ever had. She says she is not interested at all in another lover, and a huge dick doesn’t excite her (been there done that.)
I still let her know we should get an escort for her when we go to Vegas! It will probably never happen, but I respect her choice.
If she says no, then it is a no. Doesn't stop you gently trying to introduce it as a fuck fantasy ( potentially very hot) and then perhaps she will warm to the idea, but I would be grateful she is pretty much 100% into you!
I’m speaking from experience don’t force her it may cost you your marriage. I can explain more if you want to message me
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