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I've been here for a few months now! Always had a fantasy of my wife sharing. Seeing her pleasure by another man turns me on and has always been my fantasy.

She is bit vanilla when it comes to sex but very attractive lady. And extremely tight and she struggles with mine for few min initially, but then after few min I hear her say deeper , deeper, more pls etc.. I guess it loosens her few mins into it. But the start is always bit tight for her. Not sure if anyone has any idea, why is it that way?

Anyways, not sure if I'm a cuckold but like the idea of sharing her. I want to share her and participate with her etc. But not with me with a man. Xan someone pls explain if I'm cuckold or this is stag / vixen category. Really not sure where my fantasy falls into.

Long story short, I spoke to her many times that I want to see her have sex with another man and may be threesome etc. But I want to be involved on someway or alteast see it in video etc. The answers have always been no. I even said we can try Swingers Club and just see and not do anything. Still no.


We do watch porn sometimes, but the commercial ones and thenot homemade, which I hate. Love the homemade ones. Anyways, still better than nothing.


Now, finally, she agreed for dildo or any sex toys. My question is, what kind of sex toys should I introduce to her that will eventually lead to a wife sharing lifestyle?? She is modern in dressing but conservative when it comes to sex or any fantasy. She says she has no sexual fantasy whats so ever and has only made love with someone she loved.

I know this starts with sex toys .. any recommendations, pls?
 
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One of the first things I did with my wife was to video tape her. I asked her to do a strip tease for me. During the strip I said "you want to show US". She says us! I said ya me and my buddies I love showing off your body. She said sure as she took her lingerie off. I was in the Navy and stationed 3 hours away. So she had no idea who I was sharing her video with. Then I took a pic of her on the TV with 3 guys watching her. She was horny as hell knowing guys were looking at her naked.
Next toys got her thinking MFM because she would suck my cock as I was stroking her pussy with a toy. I would talk to her about taking two cocks and satisfying two guys at once. Long story short it took me about 6 months and a little trickery, but she ended up in bed in my barracks room with one of the guys in the pic watching her strip video. Video link to this video. Really bad quality because it was a long time ago with a VHS video recorder, but if you listen to her she seemed more than willing to let me show the video to my buddies. https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/media/strip_4_us-mp4.271230/
 
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One of the first things I did with my wife was to video tape her. I asked her to do a strip tease for me. During the strip I said "you want to show US". She says us! I said ya me and my buddies I love showing off your body. She said sure as she took her lingerie off. I was in the Navy and stationed 3 hours away. So she had no idea who I was sharing her video with. Then I took a pic of her on the TV with 3 guys watching her. She was horny as hell knowing guys were looking at her naked.
Next toys got her thinking MFM because she would suck my cock as I was stroking her pussy with a toy. I would talk to her about taking two cocks and satisfying two guys at once. Long story short it took me about 6 months and a little trickery, but she ended up in bed in my barracks room with one of the guys in the pic watching her strip video. Video link to this video. Really bad quality because it was a long time ago with a VHS video recorder, but if you listen to her she seemed more than willing to let me show the video to my buddies. https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/media/strip_4_us-mp4.271230/
The video makes it more hot after the back story!

My wife is bit conservative for video. But sounds like a good route to eventually convince her.. one thing I have learned, the more I talk about it, the more she dislikes the idea. I think I have to be slow and steady with this. Try new things that will eventually get her open minded.
 
Hey sounds like me and you are like minded.. My wife cheated awhile back with a coworker. She sucked his cock at work swallowing his cum. At fist I was mad but realized it made me hard imagine her with another cock in her mouth .
Honestly I secretly wish she cheats on me.. I even check her phone just to get exicted. But damn nothing. I'm like thinking yo myself, atleast flirt with guys for fuxk sake lol
 
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The video makes it more hot after the back story!

My wife is bit conservative for video. But sounds like a good route to eventually convince her.. one thing I have learned, the more I talk about it, the more she dislikes the idea. I think I have to be slow and steady with this. Try new things that will eventually get her open minded.
Just to give you some hope, my wife was a virgin and had only been with me. She was dead set against it too. But as you can see she warmed up to it. Yes don't push to hard.
 
Just to give you some hope, my wife was a virgin and had only been with me. She was dead set against it too. But as you can see she warmed up to it. Yes don't push to hard.
I hear ya man.. pushing too much doesn't seem to help. She asked me last time, " are you gay or something? What's wrong with you?" Lol..

I mean she is pretty innocent in all these and I want to make her wild man. But ya you right.. gotta be slow.
 
I'd push into the idea of using bigger dildos, prefereable if it is a replica of a pornstar or a very realistic one.

Once she start using them, probably she will realise the orgasm intensity and duration is much higher rather than with you... At least this is how two of my couples started like this.

After this, you can start talking about the idea during sex, while you're using the dildo with her. Probably she will be more open to this if she is feeling a big dick inside her 😏

Depending on her reaction push a little bit more and talk about the possibility of having a hung man instead of the dildo.

This is how my two friends did It and It worked for them. And after that they introduced me step by step.

Nos its two years since I meet periodically these couples.
 
I'd push into the idea of using bigger dildos, prefereable if it is a replica of a pornstar or a very realistic one.

Once she start using them, probably she will realise the orgasm intensity and duration is much higher rather than with you... At least this is how two of my couples started like this.

After this, you can start talking about the idea during sex, while you're using the dildo with her. Probably she will be more open to this if she is feeling a big dick inside her 😏

Depending on her reaction push a little bit more and talk about the possibility of having a hung man instead of the dildo.

This is how my two friends did It and It worked for them. And after that they introduced me step by step.

Nos its two years since I meet periodically these couples.
That's a good advise thank you.. was thinking about 8 inch dildo. I'm about 6 inches. So I think 8 may be a good start.

Was reading about penis extenders as well!
 
That's a good advise thank you.. was thinking about 8 inch dildo. I'm about 6 inches. So I think 8 may be a good start.

Was reading about penis extenders as well!
Ir she didn't anything bigger before, yes, 8" would be ok. But be sure It is one very realistic, so she can feel the head and veins 😀

I'm not sure how a penis extender works or how the women feel It. I guess the good point is that you could fuck her while she feels something bigger inside her. Try it and tell us!
 
Ir she didn't anything bigger before, yes, 8" would be ok. But be sure It is one very realistic, so she can feel the head and veins 😀

I'm not sure how a penis extender works or how the women feel It. I guess the good point is that you could fuck her while she feels something bigger inside her. Try it and tell us!
Yes I think so.. I need to do some resea4xh on realistic dildos. No idea there were realistic ones. Glad u mentioned it
 
Can you shop online together? As others have mentioned, she might have a different fantasy or perspective.

I was surprised and a little disappointed by what my wife picked out but it makes her happy, horny and orgasm…therefore it was the right move.
 
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Hello all!

I've been here for a few months now! Always had a fantasy of my wife sharing. Seeing her pleasure by another man turns me on and has always been my fantasy.

She is bit vanilla when it comes to sex but very attractive lady. And extremely tight and she struggles with mine for few min initially, but then after few min I hear her say deeper , deeper, more pls etc.. I guess it loosens her few mins into it. But the start is always bit tight for her. Not sure if anyone has any idea, why is it that way?

Anyways, not sure if I'm a cuckold but like the idea of sharing her. I want to share her and participate with her etc. But not with me with a man. Xan someone pls explain if I'm cuckold or this is stag / vixen category. Really not sure where my fantasy falls into.

Long story short, I spoke to her many times that I want to see her have sex with another man and may be threesome etc. But I want to be involved on someway or alteast see it in video etc. The answers have always been no. I even said we can try Swingers Club and just see and not do anything. Still no.


We do watch porn sometimes, but the commercial ones and thenot homemade, which I hate. Love the homemade ones. Anyways, still better than nothing.


Now, finally, she agreed for dildo or any sex toys. My question is, what kind of sex toys should I introduce to her that will eventually lead to a wife sharing lifestyle?? She is modern in dressing but conservative when it comes to sex or any fantasy. She says she has no sexual fantasy whats so ever and has only made love with someone she loved.

I know this starts with sex toys .. any recommendations, pls?
My man, I’m in te the fact situation, with the exact questions ! We should talk!
 
I'd push into the idea of using bigger dildos, prefereable if it is a replica of a pornstar or a very realistic one.

Once she start using them, probably she will realise the orgasm intensity and duration is much higher rather than with you... At least this is how two of my couples started like this.

After this, you can start talking about the idea during sex, while you're using the dildo with her. Probably she will be more open to this if she is feeling a big dick inside her 😏

Depending on her reaction push a little bit more and talk about the possibility of having a hung man instead of the dildo.

This is how my two friends did It and It worked for them. And after that they introduced me step by step.

Nos its two years since I meet periodically these couples.
100% talking about during sex helps, in my case (I haven’t got anyway closer yet to a threesome) there was a guy that email her constantly, she always rejected him. Guy sent pictures of his massive cock, she rejected him. Las time I was about to eat her pussy and told her “imagine im him” she went completely silent and I could tell how she was into it thinking that the wanna be bull was eating her pussy, she came in less than a minute. Once I blindfolded her and told her to think that was this guy, again she went silently to play the role. I really recommend to talk about it during sex