Finally told her

I finally told her about this desire and shes into it!! We are both cautious but excited. When we were discussing how we would want to meet with a bull (Like what we are expecting and how we should vet them) I admitted to her that even talking about that had gotten me hard and she said it was cute. Made me feel on top of the world...

That being said, we both agreed that we want this to be a couples thing. No solo dates or meets for her. She doesn't want them and I dont either. So we figured when we are ready, we would find a man online who is already experienced in this lifestyle. Chat with him together and then go meet him for coffee. both together. Then after that we would go home and reconvene. If we like him we will schedule something more exciting at a hotel. THAT is what got me hard. Talking about the logistics of it...

Anyways, my little rambling aside, I want your takes. Is that a decent plan? is it too little? We are new so please keep that in mind before saying we should just go find a guy on tinder or something. Also ANY resources you can provide would be great. Any tips or advice? sites to find bulls? Things to watch out for or iron out prior to doing this for real...Thanks!!!