First meet and greet set!

[Anonymousrob84]

So it seems as though this is finally happening. We have our first official meet and greet with a potential bull. We are meeting strictly for drinks with no pressure of play. This is just to feel each other out and make sure it is a good fit.

Do you guys have any advice for us as we approach this new endeavor? Any experienced people want to lay some knowledge on us about some of the things we should discuss or avoid on this type of meet? We would appreciate any help!

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

Have her wear something sexy underneath and have a bag packed in case both of you feel them chemistry with him. If he invites you to his place (home or hotel room), then you have that option available to you.
You also may want to ask her if she wants I be freshly shaved or waxed JUST IN CASE.

 

[Anonymousrob84]

Have her wear something sexy underneath and have a bag packed in case both of you feel them chemistry with him. If he invites you to his place (home or hotel room), then you have that option available to you.
You also may want to ask her if she wants I be freshly shaved or waxed JUST IN CASE.

Thanks. We have scheduled it on a weeknight so that we can ensure no play on the first date, other than a little handsy fun possibly. We wanted to make sure that she could control herself and that the first meeting was just for that purpose.

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

I would quietly pack a bag for just in case and have it in the trunk of the car. Include some different sized condoms.
If you don’t use it, show your wife when you get home that you were ready to follow through with this.

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

So, how soon is your meet and greet?

 

[Anonymousrob84]

So, how soon is your meet and greet?

We are meeting one guy on Tuesday and another on Wednesday. Just for drinks of course, but still, it’s a big step.

 

[keylife022]

So it seems as though this is finally happening. We have our first official meet and greet with a potential bull. We are meeting strictly for drinks with no pressure of play. This is just to feel each other out and make sure it is a good fit.

Do you guys have any advice for us as we approach this new endeavor? Any experienced people want to lay some knowledge on us about some of the things we should discuss or avoid on this type of meet? We would appreciate any help!

Feeling each other out is not as much fun as feeling each other up.

 

[Anonymousrob84]

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Feeling each other out is not as much fun as feeling each other up.

This is true, but one of our established rules is that we always meet ahead of play, to make sure we all vibe together.

 

[keylife022]

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This is true, but one of our established rules is that we always meet ahead of play, to make sure we all vibe together.

Once the vibe is there, the best way for hubby to get the message is your hand on your new lovers cock. Even if under the dinner table. Just slide yourself over to his side so husband knows you have made a decision. 😈😁

 

[Cmyblkwife]

Have her wear something sexy underneath and have a bag packed in case both of you feel them chemistry with him. If he invites you to his place (home or hotel room), then you have that option available to you.
You also may want to ask her if she wants I be freshly shaved or waxed JUST IN CASE.

No underwear or bra

 

[Cmyblkwife]

Don't go in with any expectations but always be prepared to play. There is no reason not to play on the first date if things are going well. Don't make rules that tie your hands when an opportunity arises. "Missed lifestyle opportunities", we've all had them and we all regret them. Sometimes things that evolve on an initial meeting are far more fun than a date planned for just sex. Don't limit yourself, be ready.

No rules or restrictions; I think just timing and environment

 

[keylife022]

Every unplanned meeting has gone much better than the ones where we choreographed the evening in advance. Being open to changing events and chemistry is very important.
But it’s also okay to walking away if things don’t feel comfortable as well

 

[Cmyblkwife]

Thank you

Every unplanned meeting has gone much better than the ones where we choreographed the evening in advance. Being open to changing events and chemistry is very important.
But it’s also okay to walking away if things don’t feel comfortable as well

thst is exactly correct

 

[Cmyblkwife]

Thank you

thst is exactly correct

Crazy watching the encounter unfold

 

[Anonymousrob84]

Don't go in with any expectations but always be prepared to play. There is no reason not to play on the first date if things are going well. Don't make rules that tie your hands when an opportunity arises. "Missed lifestyle opportunities", we've all had them and we all regret them. Sometimes things that evolve on an initial meeting are far more fun than a date planned for just sex. Don't limit yourself, be ready.

I think we eventually will get to this point but we wanted the chance to debrief after the very first meeting ever. We didn’t want to just jump right into it when emotions were running high. We want to make sure that the first time is really well put-together and organized. That way it’s a positive experience for both of us

 

[keylife022]

Crazy watching the encounter unfold

I absolutely LOVE when a husband watches or is listening from the other room.

 

[Cmyblkwife]

Crazy watching the encounter unfold

 

[Cmyblkwife]

Sometimes I’ll watch from outside through window or I’ll leave and come back

 

[keylife022]

Sometimes I’ll watch from outside through window or I’ll leave and come back

Inside the room or outside is just fine with me. I’m still taking your wife hard and deep

 

[Cmyblkwife]

Fuck her hard no limits