Getting her over the final hurdle

[ukcouple4play]

My smoking hot 42 year old wife is so close to taking the plunge and becoming a hotwife it's maddening! I KNOW she wants it, she knows I know, in her words she would love to be a 'slut' but isn't 'brave' enough! How can I support her in getting over whatever doubts are still holding her back, despite years of talking and fantasising and both admitting it's our number one fantasy?

 

[Stardly]

My smoking hot 42 year old wife is so close to taking the plunge and becoming a hotwife it's maddening! I KNOW she wants it, she knows I know, in her words she would love to be a 'slut' but isn't 'brave' enough! How can I support her in getting over whatever doubts are still holding her back, despite years of talking and fantasising and both admitting it's our number one fantasy?

I’d be happy to advise and support. I’ve been lucky enough to support several couples through these final steps over the years. Drop me a message here or on telegram @avonlad

 

[Wantsomefunto]

Any progress?

 

[Blxx]

Start small. Flirting. Then later touching. Then maybe kissing. Then maybe a handjob or blowjob. Then when comfy she can go either 3way with you or 1 on 1.

Break it into smaller steps at her pace so she’s comfortable. Guessing nice that first guy fucks her you want be able to stop it after that!

 

[Ukanon]

I'm in the same boat!

 

[peelthemdown]

My smoking hot 42 year old wife is so close to taking the plunge and becoming a hotwife it's maddening! I KNOW she wants it, she knows I know, in her words she would love to be a 'slut' but isn't 'brave' enough! How can I support her in getting over whatever doubts are still holding her back, despite years of talking and fantasising and both admitting it's our number one fantasy?

Can I pm you?

 

[ThisPussy]

Maybe a series of HotWife Challenges, each one escalating in risk/potential reward
She needs to be gently nudged out of her comfort zone and each stage will help her become more confident

Another thought, and it’s a little extreme 😎
Tie her up tight, arms overhead, legs wide and warm her up with with a vibrator. Take your time she has to be really turned on. Start fucking her and have another guy come in, stand next to her and jack off watching. If she doesn’t beg for his cock he can bust a nut on her and leave
If anything else she’ll know another man found her desirable
I said it was extreme 😂
You’ll know based upon your relationship with her whether you can pull that one off or not
Good luck!

 

[ThisPussy]

Another thought, this started me thinking how my wife finally crossed over and she’s over 50
We were at the same spot you are
I gifted her a lingerie photoshoot because I wanted the photos and wanted her to look/feel sexy in front of another man.
When she gave me the photo set she admitted right after this last pic was taken she was so horny she fucked the photographer!
Now she’s insatiable She’s been a hotwife now for almost three years and loves it!

 

[ThisPussy]

Give her options, tell her to choose one, let her decide how she wants to move forward 🤷

 

[niskeyguy]

The one thing you can say is, the other guy is basically a sex toy for both of you. Who ever you pick is for your wife to have a strange wild exsperance. And for the husband to gets to watch his wife get laid and believe me its extremely hot to watch. And after its all said and done , you get to talk about it everytime the 2 of you have sex.

 

[Stardly]

I'm in the same boat!

Message me and I will support

 

[werekinky2]

My smoking hot 42 year old wife is so close to taking the plunge and becoming a hotwife it's maddening! I KNOW she wants it, she knows I know, in her words she would love to be a 'slut' but isn't 'brave' enough! How can I support her in getting over whatever doubts are still holding her back, despite years of talking and fantasising and both admitting it's our number one fantasy?

Wouldn’t hurt for you guys to meet with a man for dinner see how she vibes with him.that’s how we started

 

[Wantsomefunto]

My smoking hot 42 year old wife is so close to taking the plunge and becoming a hotwife it's maddening! I KNOW she wants it, she knows I know, in her words she would love to be a 'slut' but isn't 'brave' enough! How can I support her in getting over whatever doubts are still holding her back, despite years of talking and fantasising and both admitting it's our number one fantasy?

She should do it

 

[niskeyguy]

She should do it

Set it up with a guy to meet you both someplace. Don't tell her Until you pull in the parking lot. Then say, do you want to go in ? If she does your all set. If no just leave.
Just let the guy know it might not happen its all up to her.

 

[Ben&cherry]

You can't convince her. She has to work out the doubts herself in her own head. You have to support her. That's what I done. If she asks questions then give her answers. Don't be negative over anything. Make sure it's positive and for her benefit as to why you want to do it.
Once she has got rid of them doubts she is ready and will tell you. But it's all about communication.