Group/Public Wife Sharing Experience. Suggestions?

[Peter82]

I’d like to share an experience we had last night and will gladly take any advice on how or if there’s a way for this to work.

As a quick reference I share my wife with two men. More accurately she shares herself with them. We’ve developed a mutual fantasy, like many others, of her having a group of strangers jerk off, caress, and maybe even fuck her. She has a lot of group experience prior to us meeting. One time in particular was when she patronized a strip club and had an experience prior to getting the boot from the club due to what was happening.

Somewhat reluctantly we made an almost two hour drive last night to a theater my wife was familiar with many years ago located just outside a very affluent area. We had multiple concerns leading up to it and settled on this particular place. The top of the list was avoiding anywhere unsanitary and disgusting followed up with general safety and a desire not to end up in jail. According to her she’d never been there but it was a known spot amongst many as she grew up. So we made the drive and gave it a shot.

First off you’d never know this was a business while driving by. I’ve been inside an adult store once and this was very different as it was predominately just lingerie and such. So we were led back to a theater room which only had about 100 seats or so. Including us there was only seven people total for the time we were there and one couple. No offense to anyone on here but the couple was at least 30 years older than us and we just weren’t feeling it. We were told by a couple we know to come in together but have me sit in the row behind my wife as some sort of signal? Anyways we did just that and not even a minute later a guy I didn’t even notice came and sat next to my wife who was already rubbing herself over her panties. Soon after that another guy got up and came over as well. Not even five minutes later the employee from the front came in and told us “wrap it up quick”. At this point it was us, the other couple who damn well know was doing something together, and the two guys in the entire place. Not wanting to cause a problem they wrapped it up pretty quickly. There was no sex, just my wife receiving oral, some fingering, and some stroking.

As we left we were excited but disappointed. My wife had a few orgasms from the oral but I didn’t come close to coming myself. Maybe stupidly we expected to walk in to a theater of like 25 guys.

Are we being unrealistic or is there a typical balance between fun and having the expectations I mentioned above?

 

[Peter82]

Well I guess that answers that

 

[LWHubby]

Sounds like your visit went pretty well. We have never had great luck in those scenarios.

 

[jw_kk]

Adult theatre / bookstore / novelty businesses are a mixed bag. Their ability to remain open, if they allow sexual contact in the business can be severely limited by local issues including law enforcement, codes, zoning restrictions, and so on.

Some of these businesses are targeted by law enforcement. A few have proprietors who have their staff keep an eye open for these visits, and will warn patrons of a pending problem - that may be the case in the visit you describe.

As for patrons, in our experience it's always a roll of the dice - a few times KK and I've gotten lucky and the venue's been full of horny, willing men (and sometimes a few women). Other times, the 'score' is close to zero.

 

[Peter82]

Yeah. In hindsight we realize it could have gone worse. Speaking for myself I can say I haven’t been that nervous and excited in a long time. I just envisioned a bit longer of entertainment. On a positive note my wife made contact on social media with the employee we met. Turns out he’s the owner/manager. We’re headed back down to have some drinks with him later this evening. Looking forward to it.

 

[LWHubby]

Well that sounds like it could get interesting.
Our best group experiences have been at swinger clubs, and once at a beach, known for nudity but not an official nude beach. We have gotten back together with one of the guys involved in that day and had a few fun adventures. Alas he has dropped off the map.

 

[JaknSuz]

We have been to many adult theaters and arcades and will completely agree with what @jw_kk said a few posts earlier. It can be hit or miss any visit that you make to one of these places. There have been plenty of times that Suz got her brains banged out and to a lesser extent, times where it was a complete dud visit. Don't give up on it just yet! Would you mind at least sharing what state your experience was in?

 

[Mister_De_Sade]

I've considered a similar scenario, but vetting 3-4 guys in advance that could meet us at such place, that we've played with before. That would guarantee fun in a public setting, but sacrifices the spontaneity .

 

[jw_kk]

I've considered a similar scenario, but vetting 3-4 guys in advance that could meet us at such place, that we've played with before. That would guarantee fun in a public setting, but sacrifices the spontaneity .

When Craig's List was still viable, we tried a few variations on the theme of pre-arranged ABS/GH meet-ups. One of them went south due to law enforcement intervention (we skated it, thanks to an alert staff). The other two produced a larger turn-out in the venue we chose, as compared to a spontaneous visit.

The basic idea was a CL post that provided a rough time range, venue, and interests, along with a couple of photos of KK in action. We got far more email responses than we could reasonably go through, and I'd say that the postings spurred about twice the audience of what we were accustomed to on a random, spontaneous visit.

We've tried this on DoubleList, but the posts never make it past their weird filtering thing.

There's a credible source of ABS/GH/theatre curated at https://dremiliolizardo.SPAM.com/ - variations of this have been around in some form or another for a while. It seems that the pandemic took a considerable toll on these venues, combined with other factors, these naughty places are in short supply of late.

KK loves, fetishizes watching men masturbate. I love to see her, "dressed for success," the center of attention for dozens of horny guys in a theatre, stroking and cumming for her. The walk of shame, with her nylons, hair, etc. drenched in cum is so delightfully depraved.

 

[Peter82]

We have been to many adult theaters and arcades and will completely agree with what @jw_kk said a few posts earlier. It can be hit or miss any visit that you make to one of these places. There have been plenty of times that Suz got her brains banged out and to a lesser extent, times where it was a complete dud visit. Don't give up on it just yet! Would you mind at least sharing what state your experience was in?

Florida. And we have been introduced to a whole new world.

We made the drive back over and met him and his wife out for dinner. Afterwards he and I and she and the wife went separate ways. I was reluctant but just let it ride. He and I ended up heading back to his house and through the evening people not so randomly started showing up. We ended up making our way to an entertainment room. My wife hadn’t shown up yet and there was a couple having sex, porn up on the big screen, and naturally the guys, myself included started masturbating.

Turned out my wife and his wife went dancing and drinking at a club. She showed up, sat in between me and my new found mate and watched us masturbate. I ended up getting up and moving across the room and just watched her get surrounded by a group of guys. Not sure what the psychology was behind it but a few of them just watched her play with herself and with other guys and just jerked off on her as opposed to fucking her. The mate’s wife also had her thing going on.

Granted it wasn’t a random theater experience but early on in the evening I thought we were just going to have a hookup amongst us as couples. I realize the new will wear off or thin at least at some point but my wife had such a good time and so did I.

 

[WNY3somecple]

I've considered a similar scenario, but vetting 3-4 guys in advance that could meet us at such place, that we've played with before. That would guarantee fun in a public setting, but sacrifices the spontaneity .

Well if she trusts you, you can set it up without her knowing, maybe having a code word to indicate to her it's safe. So yeah some spontaneity for you is gone but for her it's not and the guys are still strangers to her.

It works

 

[Peter82]

Were you disappointed because there weren't more men there? I would call it a success if a guy brought my wife to orgasm orally! What are your expectations?

Disappointed is the wrong word. We put so much thought and build up to it that the abrupt ending was a bummer. But yes I’m hindsight it was a success.

 

[Mort]

When Craig's List was still viable, we tried a few variations on the theme of pre-arranged ABS/GH meet-ups. One of them went south due to law enforcement intervention (we skated it, thanks to an alert staff). The other two produced a larger turn-out in the venue we chose, as compared to a spontaneous visit.

The basic idea was a CL post that provided a rough time range, venue, and interests, along with a couple of photos of KK in action. We got far more email responses than we could reasonably go through, and I'd say that the postings spurred about twice the audience of what we were accustomed to on a random, spontaneous visit.

We've tried this on DoubleList, but the posts never make it past their weird filtering thing.

There's a credible source of ABS/GH/theatre curated at https://dremiliolizardo.SPAM.com/ - variations of this have been around in some form or another for a while. It seems that the pandemic took a considerable toll on these venues, combined with other factors, these naughty places are in short supply of late.

KK loves, fetishizes watching men masturbate. I love to see her, "dressed for success," the center of attention for dozens of horny guys in a theatre, stroking and cumming for her. The walk of shame, with her nylons, hair, etc. drenched in cum is so delightfully depraved.

Thanks for the references!

 

[dickhurtz]

https://dremiliolizardo.SPAM.com/

try this one....

https://dremiliolizardo.SPAM.com/2017_05_31_archive.html

 

[jusme]

I’d like to share an experience we had last night and will gladly take any advice on how or if there’s a way for this to work.

As a quick reference I share my wife with two men. More accurately she shares herself with them. We’ve developed a mutual fantasy, like many others, of her having a group of strangers jerk off, caress, and maybe even fuck her. She has a lot of group experience prior to us meeting. One time in particular was when she patronized a strip club and had an experience prior to getting the boot from the club due to what was happening.

Somewhat reluctantly we made an almost two hour drive last night to a theater my wife was familiar with many years ago located just outside a very affluent area. We had multiple concerns leading up to it and settled on this particular place. The top of the list was avoiding anywhere unsanitary and disgusting followed up with general safety and a desire not to end up in jail. According to her she’d never been there but it was a known spot amongst many as she grew up. So we made the drive and gave it a shot.

First off you’d never know this was a business while driving by. I’ve been inside an adult store once and this was very different as it was predominately just lingerie and such. So we were led back to a theater room which only had about 100 seats or so. Including us there was only seven people total for the time we were there and one couple. No offense to anyone on here but the couple was at least 30 years older than us and we just weren’t feeling it. We were told by a couple we know to come in together but have me sit in the row behind my wife as some sort of signal? Anyways we did just that and not even a minute later a guy I didn’t even notice came and sat next to my wife who was already rubbing herself over her panties. Soon after that another guy got up and came over as well. Not even five minutes later the employee from the front came in and told us “wrap it up quick”. At this point it was us, the other couple who damn well know was doing something together, and the two guys in the entire place. Not wanting to cause a problem they wrapped it up pretty quickly. There was no sex, just my wife receiving oral, some fingering, and some stroking.

As we left we were excited but disappointed. My wife had a few orgasms from the oral but I didn’t come close to coming myself. Maybe stupidly we expected to walk in to a theater of like 25 guys.

Are we being unrealistic or is there a typical balance between fun and having the expectations I mentioned above?

I dont know about over the pond but here in the UK it it mainly swing clubs and dogging areas. I believe there are a few cinemas for the more er...adventurous sexperts, but personally I prefer the dogging. I have taken my ex partners (separately of course, or this would be a whole new scenario) both dogging and to the clubs with outstanding, or upstanding, success.
Many of such episodes have come from us doing our naked walks and getting ourselves worked up for new sexual encounter

 

[JaknSuz]

@Peter82 If y'all are anywhere near Tampa, look up Fantasyland and give it a try sometime. Supposed to be lots of action there for couples who like the lady being the center of attention of a group of men. You might even make it onto an episode of Dirty D! LOL....just kidding, but I think he does shoot some of his stuff there. Look him up on X Hamster.

 

[Peter82]

I dont know about over the pond but here in the UK it it mainly swing clubs and dogging areas. I believe there are a few cinemas for the more er...adventurous sexperts, but personally I prefer the dogging. I have taken my ex partners (separately of course, or this would be a whole new scenario) both dogging and to the clubs with outstanding, or upstanding, success.
Many of such episodes have come from us doing our naked walks and getting ourselves worked up for new sexual encounter

Thanks for the input and I can either look up what dogging areas are or you could share. Again we’re not pro’s here quite yet so not familiar with all the vernacular.

 

[Peter82]

@Peter82 If y'all are anywhere near Tampa, look up Fantasyland and give it a try sometime. Supposed to be lots of action there for couples who like the lady being the center of attention of a group of men. You might even make it onto an episode of Dirty D! LOL....just kidding, but I think he does shoot some of his stuff there. Look him up on X Hamster.

That’s a bit of a drive for us but we’re not averse to some travel for some fun.

Our friend told us the ultimate place to experience is a joint in Montreal. Not sure if the legality of it up there but he mentioned a couple places and made it sound like it’s not only accepted but embraced by the culture up there. He and his wife went just before Covid and it was a wild time. Very clean and the pictures he showed us looked like an old ornate and large theater. They went during a weekend and he guessed there was no less than 100 people in the theater with about a 10-1 guy to girl ratio. Many just minded their own business but there were many which did not.

If anyone has knowledge of how it is now up there we’d be glad to hear it as my wife has been stuck on that since hearing about it.

 

[gr852]

GR took me to an adult theater prior to Covid.
Went into the theater first, half dozen couples and about the amount of single men. The couples were playing and the singles had their cocks out stroking right next to the couples.
We went down the hall where the private rooms were looking in the rooms there were couples having sex, guys giving each other BJ's. In one room there was a sex swing with a heavy woman in it with three guys taking turns with her, did not turn us on at all.
We went down the hall and found an open room, went in and left the door open. I took my skirt and panties off and sit next to GR. He began play with me when a black man came in and ask if he could join. He got down in front of me and began playing with me with his fingers and tounge. It did not take me long and I got my climax. He stood up unzipped and pull out a very impressive cock. I began sucking on him and he ask to fuck me, No one had any condoms so I told him I would finish him with my mouth . He soon filled my mouth., gave me a deep kiss.
We were there for a few more hours, watching couples in the theater and I gave head to a few more guys. I thank the best thing was the strange guys feeling me up while I sucked their cocks. GR told it was so hot watching me. Hope to go back some time.

 

[Peter82]

GR took me to an adult theater prior to Covid.
Went into the theater first, half dozen couples and about the amount of single men. The couples were playing and the singles had their cocks out stroking right next to the couples.
We went down the hall where the private rooms were looking in the rooms there were couples having sex, guys giving each other BJ's. In one room there was a sex swing with a heavy woman in it with three guys taking turns with her, did not turn us on at all.
We went down the hall and found an open room, went in and left the door open. I took my skirt and panties off and sit next to GR. He began play with me when a black man came in and ask if he could join. He got down in front of me and began playing with me with his fingers and tounge. It did not take me long and I got my climax. He stood up unzipped and pull out a very impressive cock. I began sucking on him and he ask to fuck me, No one had any condoms so I told him I would finish him with my mouth . He soon filled my mouth., gave me a deep kiss.
We were there for a few more hours, watching couples in the theater and I gave head to a few more guys. I thank the best thing was the strange guys feeling me up while I sucked their cocks. GR told it was so hot watching me. Hope to go back some time.

Geesh. Having second thoughts about this whole thing after the experience we had this last weekend. Very different for us and over my head and that’s saying a lot.