Hello everyone…

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Oct 3, 2021
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Hi everyone, hope all is well here.
I’m a 43 yo male with a 37 yo wife. We have been together for 15 yrs now. We have a very vanilla sex life. I was married before and had a hotwife relationship. It was extremely fun and hot. We were young and living life. You must be thinking, “so why did it end?”. Well, long story short, her cousin introduced her to drugs and she fell into that rabbit hole. She never came back out. We got divorced shortly there after.
Anyways, with my current lovely sexy wife, we are stable emotionally and financially. We both feel our sex life is lacking. We’ve been talking about ideas on how to spice things up. I want to bring up the idea through fantasy talk and/or hotwife porn.
She’s very open and is very flirtatious in nature. Men always make comments and she likes the attention. I’m not bothered by this and she knows it. She has guy friends and I have girl friends so it’s safe to say we are not jealous or have trust issues. She makes comments and brings up subjects about big cocks. Probably 3-4 times a month. Like her friends slept with some guy and showed her pics of his cock. Or watching porn she mentions how big the guys cock is.
I’m not big or small but average. I don’t feel adequate as far as pleasing her sexually. She says I satisfy her sexual needs. Which I’m sure I do but is it breathtaking? No lol! I do however eat her out and learned what she likes. I make her cum a lot and she’s always talking about how great I can eat pussy. But never nothing about my dick being great lol!
I feel we would both be comfortable with the fantasy aspect but taking it that step forward and talking about inviting someone into our sex life? I don’t know how she would react. Since I’ve been in this type of situation before, I have no fear in bringing it up, but more so what I have to lose.
She’s been in threesomes before and has had sex with other women. She’s talked about it all to me. She’s been with many men throughout her younger years. Yes, I asked and got a crazy number lol! I didn’t care. She didn’t know it turned me on haha! I want to break the ice and tell her about my sexual past in previous marriage. And maybe that would bring up the subject for good. She likes IR porn as do I. She’s white and I’m Hispanic. She’s dated mostly Hispanic and black. I’ve dated mostly white.
I love this lifestyle and I obviously waited until we are both in an all-around stable environment. I don’t want to sleep with another woman. I just want to share my wife, if she pleases, with another man or men. We don’t drink or do drugs. We did before in our first few years. We had a lot of fun and we just stopped & never looked back. Not saying we won’t again) I feel we will sometime but casually.
Funny thing is, we were at a casino and we were drinking for a few hours and we ended up inviting a couple to our room for drinks. We had a drink or two and his wife left to her room and the husband stayed in our room chatting. We were talking and my wife says she’s getting tired and wanted to change into her something comfortable. Remember we had been drinking for at least 3 hours by now and she’s was pretty wasted. Not like blacking out but wasted. She goes to the room and comes back out whispering that she didn’t bring anything that’s good for company. So me being younger, tipsy and having been in a sharing relationship, I told her to just put whatever on. We were talking about random things and she comes back out wearing a white teddy I bought her at Victoria’s Secret lol!
The guy immediately stares at her crotch and ass as she walks by. He says “your one lucky man!”. He didn’t get his eyes off her until she went to the room. You already know what I’m thinking lol! She then yells to me to come fuck her and his face was priceless! I go to the room and she’s laying there telling me she’s horny and that I need to bring my ass in there. Had she said to bring him? I would have done it in a heartbeat. But she didn’t so I had to tell him it was time to go.
That gave me a glimmer of possibility. Since then it’s been brewing. Now it’s on the tip of my tongue when we talk about sex. I think I may have to just tell her about my past. I think it’s the best grounds to start off on. That’s a little about us and I’m here just to chat and share my sexual fork in the road.
Hope that wasn’t too long of an intro lol!