My cuckold fantasies never affected my masculinity in bad way. First of all, i needed to realise it is not about me and my fantasy.
In my case it has nothing to do with trauma psychology or anything. It is simply my wish for her to taste more flavors and to make her see how she has my full trust in pursuing her hidden desires. When right moment comes, i will confess her my fantasy and it's all on her. I would never be pushy, because it is about her pleasure.
My sex life with my fiancee is great in everyway possible. But i always considered myself to be a bit of beta sexually. I am naturally submissive and i don't go rough or don't have that primal-alike sex energy. I enjoy mostly being facesat and being ridden by her. And that is okay.
Thing is almost every woman fantasises about rough sex with that guy next door, want it or not. She probably fantasises about few guys taking turns on her, too. Women are mostly evolutionally hardwired to crave that sexually. But she also needs praise, love and attention. I realised i see myself more effective in this spectrum. Naturally, i want her to have both of the worlds, so of course, if she ever wanted, i'd support her if she decided she wanted to try that guy/guys nextdoor.
I'd want to buy her lingerie, only for it to be ripped apart by her lover.
I'd stay home and do the dishes while she is getting her guts rearranged at his place.
I'd massage her body after she returns from session of rough fucking.
I'd shower her with kisses after he showered her with cum.
I'd drive while she is getting fucked in the backseat.
The biggest appeal of cuckolding to me is see her in contrast. Being confident, loved Queen with me vs totally losing it to him and being his fucktoy.
In my case it has nothing to do with trauma psychology or anything. It is simply my wish for her to taste more flavors and to make her see how she has my full trust in pursuing her hidden desires. When right moment comes, i will confess her my fantasy and it's all on her. I would never be pushy, because it is about her pleasure.
My sex life with my fiancee is great in everyway possible. But i always considered myself to be a bit of beta sexually. I am naturally submissive and i don't go rough or don't have that primal-alike sex energy. I enjoy mostly being facesat and being ridden by her. And that is okay.
Thing is almost every woman fantasises about rough sex with that guy next door, want it or not. She probably fantasises about few guys taking turns on her, too. Women are mostly evolutionally hardwired to crave that sexually. But she also needs praise, love and attention. I realised i see myself more effective in this spectrum. Naturally, i want her to have both of the worlds, so of course, if she ever wanted, i'd support her if she decided she wanted to try that guy/guys nextdoor.
I'd want to buy her lingerie, only for it to be ripped apart by her lover.
I'd stay home and do the dishes while she is getting her guts rearranged at his place.
I'd massage her body after she returns from session of rough fucking.
I'd shower her with kisses after he showered her with cum.
I'd drive while she is getting fucked in the backseat.
The biggest appeal of cuckolding to me is see her in contrast. Being confident, loved Queen with me vs totally losing it to him and being his fucktoy.