How do I convince my wife?

So my wife is very innocent and religious. Shes is also very loyal. She never really experimented sexually growing up and I was her first relationship. Shes only ever been with me. Even just making her go outside in a skirt and no panties (Shes a tomboy) Was a huge step for her. She never really watched porn either. So I definitely have a huge challenge ahead with this.
 
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So my wife is very innocent and religious. Shes is also very loyal. She never really experimented sexually growing up and I was her first relationship. Shes only ever been with me. Even just making her go outside in a skirt and no panties (Shes a tomboy) Was a huge step for her. She never really watched porn either. So I definitely have a huge challenge ahead with this.
Be careful what you ask for, you might just get it.
 
When I met my wife, she was very shy. She had one relationship before me and it ended badly for her. While we were dating, I was building her confidence in her. When we met she didn’t even own a bikini, but on our honeymoon she went topless with a thong at a beach. The next summer she wore a thong to the apartment pool, closer to home. Just build her confidence in herself and in you. For my wife and myself, if we weren’t confident in each other, we couldn’t have started this journey.

I was with my wife for 25 years before she cucked me. It can take time.
 
So my wife is very innocent and religious. Shes is also very loyal. She never really experimented sexually growing up and I was her first relationship. Shes only ever been with me. Even just making her go outside in a skirt and no panties (Shes a tomboy) Was a huge step for her. She never really watched porn either. So I definitely have a huge challenge ahead with this.
It takes time. Drinking helps in the right situation.
 
i am married and bi my husband is not we mostly meet for same room sex exhibitionism toys but if it safe more the first thing to try is nudism when we were first married he knew i am a exhibitionist at heart not shy and like to show off so he would let me just do that in house nudism in front of his friends and i like watching a man jerk off i would hang out nude use toys things like that ;ike the lights on ,its a good way to start and i like watching sex and being watched its safe fun
 

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i am married and bi my husband is not we mostly meet for same room sex exhibitionism toys but if it safe more the first thing to try is nudism when we were first married he knew i am a exhibitionist at heart not shy and like to show off so he would let me just do that in house nudism in front of his friends and i like watching a man jerk off i would hang out nude use toys things like that ;ike the lights on ,its a good way to start and i like watching sex and being watched its safe fun
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So my wife is very innocent and religious. Shes is also very loyal. She never really experimented sexually growing up and I was her first relationship. Shes only ever been with me. Even just making her go outside in a skirt and no panties (Shes a tomboy) Was a huge step for her. She never really watched porn either. So I definitely have a huge challenge ahead with this.
My wife isn't fucking anyone that I'm aware but she knows I'm more than accepting of it if she wanted to. While we were separated she got a boyfriend and while we'd fuck, we'd talk about what they had been doing together. I let her know that I loved her fucking him and me, I told her if we decided she would come back home that I wanted her to keep fucking him on the side. She agreed she wanted to. It never happened that way.

Years prior, I'd make comments about how a bigger cock could get her off and I couldn't, I'd tell her she should try it sometime and see. She has always been kinda shy too and doesn't like how she looks, her weight and stuff like that. I'd tell her that there was plenty of men out there that would look at her just like I do, she could try it at least once and if she didn't like it, just forget about it all. I still tell her that today. While we'd be fucking, I'd mention her and that guy or another guy she was fucking the second time we separated, she'd get SO wet and turned on. I'd tell her "well, if I can't get you off, I guess we'll have to get him to come do it for me" and she'd agree and add her comments in usually.

Maybe a good way would be to start mentioning it while you two are fucking? You know her better than we do and you know what she'll be ok with you saying and what she won't. Make comments to her in public about other men looking at her and stuff like that. Just be aware, you might get her started and she might want to go to a level above where you're wanting to go. I've always told mine "I am all for sharing your body, it's just fucking but I want your heart to myself, I want you to love me and want me but I'm fine with you fucking someone else to give you what I can't". Just tread lightly, sweetie, you don't know for sure where it'll go so you need to be prepared or you might end up with a broken heart.
 
So my wife is very innocent and religious. Shes is also very loyal. She never really experimented sexually growing up and I was her first relationship. Shes only ever been with me. Even just making her go outside in a skirt and no panties (Shes a tomboy) Was a huge step for her. She never really watched porn either. So I definitely have a huge challenge ahead with this.
Hi Jennifer here.

Take small steps. Maybe try introducing a dildo into your play. It will help gauge how to proceed.
 
So my wife is very innocent and religious. Shes is also very loyal. She never really experimented sexually growing up and I was her first relationship. Shes only ever been with me. Even just making her go outside in a skirt and no panties (Shes a tomboy) Was a huge step for her. She never really watched porn either. So I definitely have a huge challenge ahead with this.
Work on her, it will be soo eXciting for both of you,,imho
 
When I met my wife, she was very shy. She had one relationship before me and it ended badly for her. While we were dating, I was building her confidence in her. When we met she didn’t even own a bikini, but on our honeymoon she went topless with a thong at a beach. The next summer she wore a thong to the apartment pool, closer to home. Just build her confidence in herself and in you. For my wife and myself, if we weren’t confident in each other, we couldn’t have started this journey.

I was with my wife for 25 years before she cucked me. It can take time.
My wife made me her cuckold after the first 10 days of dating her and she thought that that was too long.. She asked me to eat my cum out of her pussy after the first time we fucked..
 
So my wife is very innocent and religious. Shes is also very loyal. She never really experimented sexually growing up and I was her first relationship. Shes only ever been with me. Even just making her go outside in a skirt and no panties (Shes a tomboy) Was a huge step for her. She never really watched porn either. So I definitely have a huge challenge ahead with this.
Would love to hear more about you and your wife and talk through the big challenge you have in trying to get your wife comfortable with this! Feel free to send me a conversation and we can chat more.