How much do you tell vs how much you keep secret?

How much do you tell vs keep secret

  • Tell everything right away

    Votes: 6 50.0%
  • Tell everything eventually

    Votes: 3 25.0%
  • Tell all but not every single tiny detail

    Votes: 1 8.3%
  • Share all info eventually

    Votes: 4 33.3%
  • Never tell, partner and I agree free time is free time

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I like keeping some secrets , but tell most.

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I am cheating. I never tell a thing

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    12

WNY3somecple

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Mar 28, 2021
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I guess this question is primarily for those couples where one or both also plays alone. Whether it is just in separate rooms during a swap or out playing alone, how much do you tell? Do you ever keep anything a secret? Whether little details or something more? Or just not tell right away always?
 

WNY3somecple

Couple
Mar 28, 2021
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For us, what we have found works is that all, though not ever single minute play by play gets told .......eventually. we play about 50/50 together vs her alone. And yeah she has kept a few secrets for a little time before telling me. And no I do not have an issue with that.
 
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