do it when it feels natural. usually over drinks at a bar or something where there is a good looking guy you can get her to check out. start a conversation about if she finds him attractive or not. what she likes. then ask is that the kind of guy you would want to be the third? or did you have something else in mind? if you are calm about it she will be as well. she also may say she really doesn't want to do it after all when it get too real.
we dont go to bars or clubs any ideas how to bring it up at home
Has there been any movement on this? My suggestion would be 1] some time when her spirits are high and there's nothing pressuring her or demanding her time or attention. And 2] there's always special days -- holidays, vacations, Christmas, a birthday, a weekend getaway for that purpose, That sort of thing.
Will try to bring it up soon i'll keep you updated
Excellent! I'd aim for fairly low-key, continuing the conversation type of entry. ''Hon ... I've been thinking about what we were saying back a bit ...'
