If you want to tell her that you fantasise about her being with other men, introduce the idea by telling her something like this: "I had a really wierd dream last night. I went into a bar and you were there flirting with another man. The strange thing is that instead of feeling jealous, I was getting turned on watching you."
You plant the seed in her mind in her mind and ypu can't be blamed for a dream you had no control over. Also, the dream will always be the reference point for where the fantasy started.
I recommend you choose your timing carefully, as someone else said, say it in the week after her period, not before, and preferably after she's had a glass or two of wine.
You plant the seed in her mind in her mind and ypu can't be blamed for a dream you had no control over. Also, the dream will always be the reference point for where the fantasy started.
I recommend you choose your timing carefully, as someone else said, say it in the week after her period, not before, and preferably after she's had a glass or two of wine.
