Well really it depends on what really gets YOUR motor running... i would do whatever gives you one mind blowing orgasm after another... so do u want to be utterly dominated with me and your husband pounding and stuffing your every hole nonstop never going without a cock, finger, or dildo ramming your pussy, ass, and mouth.... or maybe u prefer things a little slower at least at first with the two of us caressing, licking, kissing, sucking every erogenous spot on that sexy body until we build up to finally seasawing u back and forth in a constant motion that sends u over the edge in pleasure or even maybe something else u tell me