I’m getting closer to convincing my wife

My wife and I have been dating for over 4 years, married for almost 2 years. Throughout our time, we’ve both only been interested in a monogamous relationship. Not sure what happened, but over the last year and a half I’ve developed a cuck fetish but never expressed this to my wife.

Fast forward to 8 months ago, I start introducing the idea of getting a dildo for my wife to spice things up. She was reluctant at first, but after a couple of months of talking and looking online she finally agreed to get one. I’m just above average so I made sure to get one that was overall girthier, but around same length as me. We start playing with it and as much as she feels “guilty” about feeling another cock in her, I can tell she absolutely loves it.

Fast forward to maybe 5 months ago, I start introducing dirty talk regarding her taking bigger dicks, and even start fingering her with 3 or 4 fingers (depending on her mood) to really show her how much she’d love something girthier than me. At this point, it’s easy to tell just how much she loved the extra girth just by how hard and quickly she was cumming. While I finger her with the extra fingers, I start asking her if she’d like to fuck a bigger dick. She was reluctant to say it the first couple of times, but now she’s so into the dirty talk and excitedly screams out “I want a girthier bigger dick in me” when I fuck her. It drives her and I crazy when we talk like this during sex.

Our next big step was a month or so ago. We go through our usual dirty talk, but this time while fucking her she asks me “do you want to double penetrate me with the dildo?”. We both go even crazier and my wife has a hard orgasm. We haven’t done dp just yet with her toy since she’s scared it’ll hurt, but it’s something we’ll be doing soon as I can tell my wife loves the idea of her pussy getting double stuffed.

Fast forward to this morning, I was fucking her from behind when she exclaims out loud that she wants a bigger and girthier dick in her. At this point, I ask her “you want to fuck a bigger dick in front of me and I watch?” to which she replies “yes I want to bend over and fuck a bigger dick in front of you”. I’m beyond excited at this point. After we finished, we started to talk. She let me know that she’s still only wants a monogamous relationship (I agree so I don’t scare her off about my fetish), but she did let me know that if we were still just dating (i.e. not married) she definitely would have been down for a MMF threesome (wish I would have developed my fetish sooner lol).

So at this point, we’re going to try dp with her dildo as I think it’ll be another big step towards finally sharing her with another man. I’m beyond excited about the progress made so far. She went from not wanting any toys inside of her, to screaming for bigger dicks and DP.

If you have any advice, I’m all ears! Wanted to share my story since this is the only place where I can express my fetish (for now hopefully😉).
 
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It sounds like slow and steady will win the race for you, so keep going in the direction that you are. If she is open to watching porn with you, select some MFM threesome movies. That may raise her interest some. Before we started in the lifestyle, we also were back and forth on the moral aspect of it. We finally came to the consensus that as long as we agreed on it and only did it together, it wasn't really cheating. Others may disagree, but we all justify this lifestyle in our own ways in order to enjoy it. Keep the dialogue open with her without being too pushy and the two of you may just be able to enjoy what we call Sport Fucking too! Good luck to you both. 😉
 
It sounds like slow and steady will win the race for you, so keep going in the direction that you are. If she is open to watching porn with you, select some MFM threesome movies. That may raise her interest some. Before we started in the lifestyle, we also were back and forth on the moral aspect of it. We finally came to the consensus that as long as we agreed on it and only did it together, it wasn't really cheating. Others may disagree, but we all justify this lifestyle in our own ways in order to enjoy it. Keep the dialogue open with her without being too pushy and the two of you may just be able to enjoy what we call Sport Fucking too! Good luck to you both. 😉
Appreciate the advice! Been a test of patience on my end to say the least haha