I’m hopeful: Is she cheating?

[watcher6019]

So, I’ve been trying to share my wife for a couple of years. She has been felt up & made out with a couple of guys I secretly set up, but she is reluctant to go all the way. She has stated that she isn’t sure it’s the right thing to do, but again she kissed a perfect stranger after an hour in a bar with me present in the bar, but in the bathroom corridor without me.

Thinking it will be an uphill endeavor, I’m still trying. However, lately things have happened that got me thinking. Is she cheating?

She often goes to work in the same attire. Basic jeans/dress slacks, blouse & standard black panties. Lately she has obsessed with losing weight. Not too unusual. She isn’t even 5lbs overweight but has always been somewhat that way. Lately, she has also changed her dress too. She wears more “dressy” clothes, but not sexy. She has curled her hair for work like she does on date night, and the other day she wore some beautiful flower print panties she wears on date night. Not slutty, but modestly sexy (that’s her personality too - modestly sexy). Last week she had a UTI (which could be explained by our sex - not always going to ******** after and using toys) - and the last two nights she had pain while I was fucking her. As I fucked her, she flinched and made sound of pain as I pumped her pussy. This isn’t usual.

What do y’all think? Am I wishful thinking?

When you say you secretly set her up with a couple of guys, what do you mean? Was it a secret from her or them?

 

[waynejeffries]

I’m hoping, but the only thing is that she is pretty ethical in most things and she has so little time to squeeze in a fuck somewhere else. I pretty much know where she’s at most times. Not that I check, but she tells me and is busy almost all day.

Any advice on other clues? I could ask and would be comfortable doing so, but she’d just say no because it isn’t happening or because it goes against her outward ethical display of character.

the idea that she is making sure you "know where she is at" without you pushing may indicate that she is cheating and covering her tracks

 

[italkedherintoit]

Cheating isn't cuckolding. It's cheating. Nothing more. Nothing less.

I'd leave my wife in a heartbeat if she cheated on me.

One of my exes had numerous guys over and we would fuck her, it was great. She would also step out on her own and tell me she just was crashed and didn't hear the phone when I called her. I knew this was not true as I called her from outside her apt. and her car was gone. Once I went to her door only to find that there was another guy there. My thoughts on it was the more cocks she was getting meant the more cum in her cunt, which meant the more sloppy seconds I got. I could always tell if she had been out fucking by the smell when I went down on her. I never said anything about the smell of cum, I just dove in