If you have a regular how did you meet/find him?

There always seems to be a male friend who is divorced or getting divorced. We would invite him over for dinner, end up naked in the hot tub, and my wife would start rubbing his leg. He looks over to me, I say go for it, and soon we have her in a spitroast. After he leaves we fuck one more time. So she gets 2-3 hours of hard cock. Happy wife, happy life.
 
My wife has several regulars. Her first was one of her OF fans who recognized her locally in a wine store. He was her first actually and still fucks her. Most of the others she met through the swing life style web site. One she met a local swing club.
 
I agree with all on here. I think it's easier with a friend that you know or someone close for regular but way more risky in terms of relationships.
But I like the randoms, I like the guys who flirt with her in public when we play the bar game or if we go out and she toys with me. She makes them just come out and take what they want and it's fun to see them worked up to fuck her.
Yesterday the house alarmed triggered by accident and despite telling them an Ambulance still showed up. My wife answered the door and said it's not needed and sorry, one young mouthy one looking her over, said you can still come with us. My wife said she intentionally looked them up and down and said "why not?" The guys loved that flirting. (Nothing happened but numbers traded)
It would be wicked to see her seduce a family friend like that
 
My hotwife meet one of her bulls by us goi g out to an upscalevhotel
Cocktail lounge .She told me one time she wantedtoget pucked up.and well fucked .We went to.the lounge separately she was dressed to.........She satat a high stool.for two. I Sat out of site but close enough if needed .A few giys hot on her when ine interested her she accepted a drink.and dance .After an hout or so she discreetly texted me to meet ,
She said that she wanted him and told me stay at the bar and when she was done fuckig him she would return. After about an hour or so she texted me and said go home ( pick me up in the morning. He ultimately became one of her regulars. We have played this a few times for her to.get some different cock .
 
Our steady bull is part of a married couple that we met at a swing party. They were just into watching and being watched only. They never swapped with anyone. My wife always admired his form and when we watched them, she had said to me "wow, for a petite gal she's taking all of him". He's an easy 7-8 and cut which is what I like. That comment always stuck in my head. They eventually stopped going to the club.

We would role play with toys and she would fantasize about him all the time. She was pretty much attracted to him. A couple of months later, I bump into him in and I asked "what happen, we haven't seen you at the club". He said that his wife lost her interest and they stopped going, I told him that we missed watching. That being said, he replied "I'm open to everything".

The following week, I set it up without wife knowing. I told her that I have a new toy for her and want to make it special time and want to make it an unforgettable erotic experience, "let get a room". She was very excited about the idea. That day couldn't have come fast enough and we arrived at the hotel, and upon entering the room, her new toy was there waiting wearing just a robe. She just stood there in awe. He opened his robe and she said "Oh wow", then he walked up to her and she caressed his manhood and said to me "I have the shakes". I said to her "no more fantasy its for real now". They kissed and he began to remove her clothes. He picked her up and put her on the bed, licked her entire body and then he mounted her missionary, her legs went straight up over his shoulders, entered her in one swift movement, her body shook with each thrust. Her facial expressions said it all. Then her toes began to point to the ceiling which told me she is having an orgasm. His momentum increased and she moaned with every thrust and she blurted out "oh baby he's cumming and its so warm. He gave her one huge load. She looked at me, blew me a kiss and said "take me back hun". The reclaim sex was amazing. Needless to say he became our steady.
 
My wife was still fucking her ex boyfriend when we met. He has a big thick 8 inch cock. She never stopped. I have 6 inches. She calls me little dick. She told me from the beginning if I wanted her I would have to be faithful to her and put up with her cheating on me whenever she felt like it..
 
We've been messing with a guy we know for about 2 years. We have a good time with this.
Wife and I have kinda discussed a black guy. She doesn't say what's in her mind but I know she'd be into a good looking, in shape guy in his 40s or maybe a little younger.
Our idea is a guy we could get comfortable with. We're not looking to socialize with him at all in plublc. We do this with our friend at our home and we'd like to continue at our place. Ideally we would line a visit up a few days prior. Looking for a guy to hang at our place and do my wife 2 or 3 times while I watch then he'd leave.
I know my wife would be into it big time with the right guy.
How do you find a guy?
I’m sorry that I don’t have an answer for you but this is our situation too, except that we’ve not had anyone or looked before now, for this similarly ideal guy.
I’d also seriously appreciate any real insight if anyone has a useful resource.
We’re not trying to announce our activities and interests openly in our community so making the acquaintance may be more difficult when we’re trying to keep things on the dl
 
Coworker. My wife was in his district overnight every three weeks at the time, and it worked out well as there was already interest from him. She already knew and liked him, and his wife (unbelievably) was onboard as it gave her the night off (she said her husband was oversexed and drove her nuts). I met his wife one night at a company dinner at the corporate offices and she and I agreed we both loved the situation.