we are inching towards the lifestyle---we're at a point where she'll describe scenes of her premarital sex while I jerk off. So, I'm starting to have practical questions. Are there cuckolds out there who have an agreement with the wives that would include only playing as a couple? in other words, husband is always present at play time? Is that a reasonable boundary?
We have had a cuckold relationship for 36 years, predating our marriage, driven by my wife more than me at the beginning. It was her desires to expand her sexuality, explore her mind, body, kink and to experience another mans touch and naughtyness that drove this, followed by her guilt and her wanting me to watch and know, sure i would like what i saw and accept her having a lover.
So she and my best friend, her then lover set about converting my mind, my sexual desires and my mental stimulation to make me receptive to accept and enjoy my place as her cuck husband without me knowing i already was one. Them both agreeing a plan, finally letting me watch him seducing my young wife, whilst billing this as a drunken encounter so i could say STOP yet i didnt, watching shocked to the core and enjoying what i saw.
Following the fallout from this we both learnt about what we both wanted and liked in this LS and each other, what we both gained from this as a couple how it may affect us, this brought us much closer together and we became truely best friends.
We have an agreement that we only play as a couple, however an agreement to only play together is what you both agree on, not in a way you necessarily would think.
Yes i love being present and watching but also love to leave her with her lover where the intensivity of ther passion and desires between them grows,
i also consider that even if i choose to gain a different kind of mentally stimulating experience, thrill and kink and wish NOT to be present at all, because i consent to the meeting its something we are still doing together,
She has spent time away with her lovers over the years, some i have been on and others i decided after being asked that i rather enjoy the experience of NOT being present or in anyway in control and find this another mind blowing experience receiving updates from both of them. I have also refused on some occasions, feeling it was not right for me or our relationship.
My list is endless.
So we only play as a couple so we both know and agree, communicate before hand and during her plays and are 100% open and honest with each other.
Boundaries are there but its human nature and kink that over the years we have both sought ways of pushing them back.
One kink we both share is we have navigated our lives together to be come sexual deviants, some may say perverts yet kept all this from family and friends, had a family and both forged good careers whilst remaining best friends and deeply in lover.
