Maybe she needs a reward today

My girl has gone above and beyond for me lately. We have a new play friend she met last week and she had her initial fun with but we have been wanting to hang out with him a bit as a couple . Was planning on going for a visit on Monday since all 3 of us are off. I reached out and he is cool if we go tonight and stay over and hang out tomorrow. She thought we were just staying in tonight and I just asked her if she wants to go tonight. I believe this implies the 3 of us will finally seal the deal together. I haven't quite figured out how that happens, maybe it just happens but I feel spending the night it is way more likely.

For those of you with this situation, was the first time you were together comfortable? I have of course had sex with her in every way shape form etc a zillion times and she had some alone time with him with understanding it was to lead to this. Would be no sense getting to this point as a MFM if the FM was no good for her. Do we all just get naked and jump in, maybe one then the other? Open to ideas as we are kind of nervous. She likes him, I can see that and she wants this to work out so I am going to give it every effort.

I wanted MFM slamm porn and she didn't want to do anything outside the marriage but this scenario seems to work for her and if I have learned anything over last 15 years its if her heart is in it the body follows with anything I want.

Its only a 90 minute drive but will seem forever tonight.
 
Feeling our way through that night was like a first date in high school. We sat around and watched a movie, she was leaning against him and legs up on my lap. I think that is how she need to bridge the intimacy. I was ready to go upon arrival but she needed the time so in the interest of a good outcome and additional meetings it was important for this I think. We did get to a point where I felt I needed to send them in the room to get started without me. We all decided in advance not to get too weird or hardcore right away. I gave them some time to get going without me right there. When things sounded like they were going I made my way in the bedroom. I was still dressed and just caressed her. They got in a postion where he was doggie, with her facing me but nice slow deep stuff not jack hammer. I started to get it out to go in her mouth but paused and just made eye contact and watched her get into it. Her eyes do it for me. We have always tried to have her look at me either during oral or riding me. It was so hot, I kissed her and we did that for a good while. She started to orgasm so good job to him. I let him ride it out.

I took over and he left the room, I don't know why exactly but he returned 10 minutes later or so and watched. We did a few rounds of this. Eventually in middle of the night she had her head on my chest and something started apparently while I was chashed but she was getting it slowly from behind. She reached down and held my hand as things went on. She made the call to start oral on me so I finally had my dick in her mouth and him in her other end. It was dark as hell but good just the same.
 
One thing I find very different about our new situation. We went to lunch with the "BF" (for lack of a better term). My wife is attractive so I am used to men looking at her. There is a difference between the look a man gives that "might" want to fuck your wife and a look that a man has has who does, and has, and will do so again.
That's a good thing. That means each person knows their place. Schedule monthly sessions with your bull and always reminding them the you are all there for her pleasure. I always make my asian pussy kiss her bulls before and after she gets stretched out. He always gets first dibs at her holes.
 
One thing I find very different about our new situation. We went to lunch with the "BF" (for lack of a better term). My wife is attractive so I am used to men looking at her. There is a difference between the look a man gives that "might" want to fuck your wife and a look that a man has has who does, and has, and will do so again.
I too have noticed this. Although the difference is probably in our minds because we know he has fucked her.
But I think there is a difference as well when a man checks out a woman and pictures her naked in his mind. One will picture what he wants to see but the other pictures what he has seen and will see again. And this is what make it hotter in our minds, we know what he is thinking.
 
Oddly enough we recently found ourselves in a social setting with wifes GF and her new dude who happens to be the wifes' first (and only thus far) bull, he is huge and was not exactly gentle with her. We wound up sitting at a table with them for half an hour and I kept picturing his giant cock in her mouth stretching to the utmost limit and pussy. She didn't enjoy the forcefull aspect but I have to say it was exciting sitting there having seen the pics of her getting absolutely blasted by the Fosters beer can size tool he has. She thinks he is an asshole and has closed the door on a rerun which stinks as he is someone we know, is allowed to play by his GF, no strings and well equipped. I am thinking with some time it could smooth over.
 
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My girl has gone above and beyond for me lately. We have a new play friend she met last week and she had her initial fun with but we have been wanting to hang out with him a bit as a couple . Was planning on going for a visit on Monday since all 3 of us are off. I reached out and he is cool if we go tonight and stay over and hang out tomorrow. She thought we were just staying in tonight and I just asked her if she wants to go tonight. I believe this implies the 3 of us will finally seal the deal together. I haven't quite figured out how that happens, maybe it just happens but I feel spending the night it is way more likely.

For those of you with this situation, was the first time you were together comfortable? I have of course had sex with her in every way shape form etc a zillion times and she had some alone time with him with understanding it was to lead to this. Would be no sense getting to this point as a MFM if the FM was no good for her. Do we all just get naked and jump in, maybe one then the other? Open to ideas as we are kind of nervous. She likes him, I can see that and she wants this to work out so I am going to give it every effort.

I wanted MFM slamm porn and she didn't want to do anything outside the marriage but this scenario seems to work for her and if I have learned anything over last 15 years its if her heart is in it the body follows with anything I want.

Its only a 90 minute drive but will seem forever tonight.
Good luck