Midwest Wannabe Stag

Hello everyone!

I've been with my gf for 5+ years and we're currently in the "dirty talk" stage. I've watched porn since I was 13 and my sexuality was largely informed by porn before I met my gf. She's had multiple sexual partners before me but she watches porn too. Part of our sex play was me watching porn during the week but not cumming unless she gave me permission, while on the weekends I watched her masturbate and cumming with a hitachi as foreplay before I mounted and creampied her (I'm a switch so I'd also slap her around, spank etc.). Recently she confided that while she masturbates and I watch her, that she thinks about me watching her while she gets fucked by another guy. Since then we've been done a lot of dirty talking about things she's done with her exes, the porn she watches, her cumming with toys but not me etc.

Honestly I've watched stag/cuck content since we met and I've been subtly trying to nudge her in this direction for the past 5 years. I feel like it's all coming to fruition but my gf is too into me and good-natured to actually fuck another guy (I'm also not into the humiliation aspect of it because of past trauma blah blah blah). Any tips on moving things forward?
 
Hello everyone!

I've been with my gf for 5+ years and we're currently in the "dirty talk" stage. I've watched porn since I was 13 and my sexuality was largely informed by porn before I met my gf. She's had multiple sexual partners before me but she watches porn too. Part of our sex play was me watching porn during the week but not cumming unless she gave me permission, while on the weekends I watched her masturbate and cumming with a hitachi as foreplay before I mounted and creampied her (I'm a switch so I'd also slap her around, spank etc.). Recently she confided that while she masturbates and I watch her, that she thinks about me watching her while she gets fucked by another guy. Since then we've been done a lot of dirty talking about things she's done with her exes, the porn she watches, her cumming with toys but not me etc.

Honestly I've watched stag/cuck content since we met and I've been subtly trying to nudge her in this direction for the past 5 years. I feel like it's all coming to fruition but my gf is too into me and good-natured to actually fuck another guy (I'm also not into the humiliation aspect of it because of past trauma blah blah blah). Any tips on moving things forward?
Perhaps you should try some swinging, or attend a swing club or open party, there is no obligation to do anything but there is also much opportunity to try in what ever capacity you desire!
 
UPDATE: My gf recently admitted to watching cuckold porn! She claims she doesn't really want to do it to me, but she watches cuckold porn and gets off on the humiliation aspect (she also watches r@pe, Facial ...... and "consensual nonconsensual" porn so it's a natural progression for her). Should I embrace it to further my stag/vixen fantasy, or will I regret giving into her possible fantasies of humiliating me and turning me off completely?
 
Hello everyone!

I've been with my gf for 5+ years and we're currently in the "dirty talk" stage. I've watched porn since I was 13 and my sexuality was largely informed by porn before I met my gf. She's had multiple sexual partners before me but she watches porn too. Part of our sex play was me watching porn during the week but not cumming unless she gave me permission, while on the weekends I watched her masturbate and cumming with a hitachi as foreplay before I mounted and creampied her (I'm a switch so I'd also slap her around, spank etc.). Recently she confided that while she masturbates and I watch her, that she thinks about me watching her while she gets fucked by another guy. Since then we've been done a lot of dirty talking about things she's done with her exes, the porn she watches, her cumming with toys but not me etc.

Honestly I've watched stag/cuck content since we met and I've been subtly trying to nudge her in this direction for the past 5 years. I feel like it's all coming to fruition but my gf is too into me and good-natured to actually fuck another guy (I'm also not into the humiliation aspect of it because of past trauma blah blah blah). Any tips on moving things forward?
We’re newer to all this too. DM if you ever want to chat about it all.