MWM in NYC here trying to open up wife to the lifestyle

Keep trying. A way to a women's heart is through her mind, so consistent fantasy roleplaying is a good starting point to get her more comfortable with the lifestyle
 
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I've been trying to drop hints for a while but she's been a complete no on adding people in the bedroom. We're a private upscale couple in our mid 40s. Checking in to say hello.
Does she watch porn? Get her to looking at some MMF videos and play with her while she watches. Kiss her, fondle her tits, finger her, whatever turns her on the most. That will create a link in her mind between a threesome and feeling pleasure.
 
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Does she watch porn? Get her to looking at some MMF videos and play with her while she watches. Kiss her, fondle her tits, finger her, whatever turns her on the most. That will create a link in her mind between a threesome and feeling pleasure.
She does watch porn. A couple times a month we usually have a night in the bedroom with porn on and hands and toys on and in her. We don't always go right for MMF videos or group stuff, but we often do. I'm not even really talking about a threesome though, more just her and another man...
 
I've been trying to drop hints for a while but she's been a complete no on adding people in the bedroom. We're a private upscale couple in our mid 40s. Checking in to say hello.
Good luck. If you do get her to warm to the idea, I am a 39 year old man in NYC with some experience joining couples. Hit me up if you want to chat.